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AIBU?

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To dislike my team?

5 replies

seoo · 19/10/2023 12:35

I work in public sector as a senior manager and the people I manage are not people I would put in the role, I did not hire them. For example 1 person fudges expenses and flexi sheets, finds it extremely difficult to do their work to the set standard, and consistently needs time off to the extent they can’t conduct role. Plus someone else applied for my job and are bitter they didn’t get it and are doing their best to be difficult, combative and standoffish.

They egg each other on and impact the rest of the team’s morale, so combined it’s a work life full of HR issues and unnecessary comments and criticism of me. I have tried my best to performance manage them and guide them to meet standards but at this point, aibu to just dislike them?

(Just needed a rant - there’s a lot of bureaucracy involved!)

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AgnesX · 19/10/2023 12:38

Dislike them as much as you like but keep your feelings to yourself and stay professional.

RosesAndGin · 19/10/2023 12:54

Don't give them any ammunition!!
Stay professional and grit your teeth....don't let them get a rise out of you. It's what they want.
Do you have anyone above you that you could discuss this with?

seoo · 19/10/2023 17:57

My own manager is useless, he’s on temporary promotion so gunning for any permanent position he can get. So his headspace is he might be leaving soon, he doesn’t want to rock the boat

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Hearmenow23 · 19/10/2023 18:05

You need to tackle the first one.

seoo · 19/10/2023 18:07

It really is one thing after another with them as they have a difficult personal life, so performance management is balanced with stress management. Unfortunately in my company it’s not easy to reach dismissal in these circumstances

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