Been with boyfriend for a year now. We’re currently travelling, we spend every day together. I love it 🥰
I came across texts from when we first got together and it made me really nostalgic. It was all so much more flirty, he said some really specific compliments and made it really clear how into me he was.
I mentioned this to him and he said I was being unfair. Said of course it was more like that then; we were getting to know each other. He said because we were only seeing each other once a week, it was more exciting and built up.
I also said his compliments were more specific and thought out, and now it’ll be like “yeah you look lovely darling”. He said it’s because over text he could think a lot more and had the time to construct a response.
He says I’m being unfair and comparing apples with oranges and expecting them to be the same. He says it’s much better now because he can do things now rather than be texting a lot.
I do see his point, but am I being unreasonable? He does say lovely things in real life and gives me cuddles etc but I guess I felt a bit more effort and like flirtation. He said I’m being unfair