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To think some crimes should not be turned into a drama

86 replies

Mtngfres · 13/10/2023 23:07

Flicking through Netflix and came across 'Maxine'. Realised to my horror that it was a true crime drama about Maxine Carr and the Soham murders 20 years ago. Think it was on TV last year but never heard about it.

I actually felt quite sick and no way I would be able to watch it.

I have watched True crime dramas in the past - The Sixth commandment for example was well done and you could tell it had been done with information and consent of families too. It was still hard to watch.

However, Crime dramas about child murder that many of us still remember on the news just feels too much. Not sure what consent was obtained from victim families either but it just feels wrong to dramatise.

I know it's all about viewing figures though and people always watch these programmes so I won't be surprised if they dramatise other terrible crimes that are best left alone.

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silvercurtainpoles · 16/10/2023 08:41

I disagree but I think it's important to tell the story accurately and sensitively. I think the Saville series is an example of how to do it well. They're telling the story but interspersing it with testimony from the victims - people who up until this point never had a voice.

If the series is sensationalised or gratuitous then that's different but in the case of Holly and Jessica, there will be many who've never heard of this case and in a way it's reminding people these poor girls did exist and their lives counted. If the families strongly objected, then I might be inclined to think differently but sometimes if they're fine well, these programmes can honour the victims plus help others come to terms with the horrific things that happened to them.

RhymesWithTangerine · 16/10/2023 09:25

saltinesandcoffeecups · 16/10/2023 01:57

That’s an odd take. Are all the people posting in the Israel/Hamas threads warmongers who have their popcorn out watching footage of death and destruction?

The people on the Hamas/Israel thread are interested in Hamas/Israel. The people on the True Crime on Telly thread are interested in Trues Crime on Telly.

It’s not difficult.

Dramatic · 16/10/2023 09:29

CeeceeBloomingdale · 14/10/2023 00:25

It's a good watch, you're making assumptions. Also remember Maxine was in an abusive relationship and her crime was giving a false alibi yet the public treated her akin to Myra Hindley and she was granted life long anonymity due to the public's reaction.

This always bothered me, as someone who has been in an abusive relationship I can completely see why she thought she had no choice. Plus she wasn't there when he commited the crime, she could never have changed the outcome of what happened. Obviously she should have told the police from the outset but I don't think she deserved anywhere near the hate that he deserved, yet they were pretty much equally vilified

TumblingTower · 16/10/2023 15:32

silvercurtainpoles · 16/10/2023 08:41

I disagree but I think it's important to tell the story accurately and sensitively. I think the Saville series is an example of how to do it well. They're telling the story but interspersing it with testimony from the victims - people who up until this point never had a voice.

If the series is sensationalised or gratuitous then that's different but in the case of Holly and Jessica, there will be many who've never heard of this case and in a way it's reminding people these poor girls did exist and their lives counted. If the families strongly objected, then I might be inclined to think differently but sometimes if they're fine well, these programmes can honour the victims plus help others come to terms with the horrific things that happened to them.

I totally agree with your first paragraph. As someone who was sexually abused as a child I can say that being believed gives you a lot of closure. When the man that abused me was spared prison it was so comforting when he was finally convicted a few years after (for crimes against others).

groohad · 16/10/2023 16:01

Savile was the first of these true crime things I've watched. I thought it was informative (I had no idea about the details, including necrophilia rumours) and would be useful in educating those people who said they had doubts.

SammyScrounge · 16/10/2023 19:51

Pigeonqueen · 13/10/2023 23:49

If you actually watched it you might feel differently. I found it really interesting and not gory or glorifying things at all.

I felt the same. The programme showed how audacious and nauseating Savile was as a person. I thought too that the reactions of his victims was very well done. There was no salaciousness only a tormented child's reaction

Tutufruiti29 · 16/10/2023 20:48

I watched Maxine the other night. I was interested because I worked for the police years after on the bichard enquiry. I do know where you are coming from though

Nazzywish · 18/10/2023 09:44

I've just come across this series and shocked its there, it's just still seems too recent and must be so hard for the girls families to see this advertised etc too. RIP always to those two beautiful angels.

Universalsnail · 18/10/2023 10:23

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 15/10/2023 17:04

I'm so sick I named my bearded dragon Ted Bundy.

This made me laugh far to much 😂

Hereinthismoment · 18/10/2023 16:36

Why?

I don’t consider myself to be lacking a sense of humour and I certainly have an (unhealthy, according to some!) interest in true crime. But mockery is different.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 18/10/2023 17:19

I think many young people now would struggle to comprehend the level of sexism and misogyny in the UK in the 70s, and the Long Shadow portrays this well imo

This. I was born in the mid 70s so didn't really know what it was like then. My heart broke for Marcella Claxton and the awful way she was treated

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