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To think this gym instructor is a bit of a prat

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BlowDryRat · 12/10/2023 12:55

I go to various exercise classes at my local gym: spin, yoga, Body Combat, Body Pump etc. I've been going along to a new Body Pump class but I'm thinking of stopping because I don't like the instructor.

He seems to hate people putting equipment away between tracks while others are getting a drink/changing weights. This means that he mixes up the tracks from different Body Pump releases so no one knows what equipment they'll need for each track until he tells them. This is fair enough, but:

  • He doesn't use a mic and the music is really loud, so I can't hear him even if I'm at the front.
  • He randomly stops doing the moves midway through a set, leaving us to carry on on our own. If you're not familiar with Body Pump, it's weight-lifting to music so there are different moves and combinations all the way through a track. It's very quick and easy to get lost if you're not familiar with the track.
  • He laughs at and mocks people who get it wrong, pulling "dumb" faces at them.

If you're going to make people guess what to do then it's inevitable that they'll occasionally get it wrong. I just don't like being left to guess, especially when I get mocked if I don't guess right.

He has a core of groupies who have been going for a while and they have good banter, but as an incomer I find his style pretty poor.

YANBU: He's a prat.
YABU: Instructors shouldn't need to baby everyone and you should pay better attention.

OP posts:
verdantverdure · 12/10/2023 14:15

BlowDryRat · 12/10/2023 14:07

He does sound like a bit of a dick, but does he only do the mocking thing at his regulars, or at new people too?

Everyone, although the regulars get it more.

I think I'll stop going and pop a note in the suggestions box to say why. Any ideas on how to word it so it's not too savage?

Be savage.

He is.

SuprisingHorse · 12/10/2023 14:16

Do you know in advance who is taking the class? I know different gyms are different on that front.

Some you book on and it'll say (say) Spin - Laura, and others will just say Spin.

If not, can you ask your gym to bring that in - be truthful, say there are instructors you prefer and want to attend their classes, but not others.

BlowDryRat · 12/10/2023 14:20

megletthesecond · 12/10/2023 14:13

Yanbu. IME body pump teachers can be really shit. Almost all of them I've dealt with are crap at welcoming new people and let them struggle. Don't tell someone to whack their weights up when they haven't got a clue about correct form or the routine. The music is shit too. I only tolerate it as it does me good and I've done it for 20yrs. I swear I could do better than some of the teachers.

I wouldn't recommend Body Pump to someone new to weights. It's so fast that you need consistently excellent form to prevent potential injury. I've only had two BP instructors (out of 7) who have been hot on teaching and reinforcing correct form in every class. Everyone else will just give the odd tip.

Class booking is through an app with the instructor's name against each class, thankfully!

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Bobbielikespeas · 12/10/2023 14:23

GingerIsBest · 12/10/2023 13:13

YANBU to not like him. YABU to expect to like all exercise instructors. The whole point is that different instructors appeal to different people.

This. Just vote with your purse, if it's rubbish, don't go or change gyms...

Maybe drop some constructive feedback (I personally don't like to complain about people to the extent it might make them lose their jobs unless it is something unforgivable, but constructive feedback seems reasonable)

The non demonstrating sounds a bit annoying if your are new. The mic thing sounds like an issue with the gym.

Otherwise it sounds like style, the mocking thing sounds like it is done in jest/his style if he does it to everyone but you'll know better than anyone here. Some people might like a bit of "tough talk" on their workouts 🤷‍♀️. Maybe he thinks everyone likes it 😂

End of the day, if you don't like the instructor and not enjoying the class, it seems like a waste of time to go.

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