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To think I’m being judged unfairly?

27 replies

contactme · 11/10/2023 19:06

I’m 27, in a mid management role, and a woman. I often get challenged at work by people I manage, as if I don’t deserve to be there (some applied for my role but was unsuccessful).

Also outside of my team, some people assume I’m less senior in grade than I am and automatically revert to the nearest man, who then comes to me. Inevitably the men gets credit for my work.

My career path was retail management alongside university, graduating with a statistics degree, then working as a data analyst. I got promoted as a manager in data analysis, then recently promoted again as a senior manager. It’s this role where I’m getting a lot of unnecessary attitude.

I know my job well, so feel like I’m being unfairly treated based on my age/appearance/gender. Or aibu? I’m not sure how I can navigate this as feeling undermined

OP posts:
Surreyclaire · 12/10/2023 14:29

It’s nothing to do with age appearance I have questioned older males with loads of experience it’s part of work life always has been always will be

Crinkle77 · 12/10/2023 15:50

Alopeciabop · 12/10/2023 14:18

Has anyone seen FairPlay? It’s a dramatic ott movie but it rang true to me just the issues we face and the way there’s no escaping we don’t get treated the same as men even when we’re doing well. Made me feel weirdly “seen” even though it is a fun thriller movie. Worth a watch.

Yes, can't remember his name now but her partners reaction was depressingly predictable.

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