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Financial Support for unmarried parents bereaved of a partner - backdated!

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SunniDay · 11/10/2023 11:35

Eligibility of bereavement payments on the loss of a partner (for parents) has been widened to include unmarried parents and that eligibility has been backdated.

AIBU to use the reach of mumsnet to find some of the 16000 parents who have been bereaved of a partner and have not yet claimed the bereavement support payment that they are (now) entitled to?

If this post helps one bereaved family then it has been worthwhile - and it is estimated there are 16000 families out there yet to claim.

The following is what I have understood from the podcast. If you think you could be eligible please check the criteria direct at source and consider putting in a claim.

From the website https://www.childbereavementuk.org/bereavement-support-payments
"This change is being backdated (people eligible to claim child benefit on - my brackets) 30 August 2018, when the Supreme Court ruled that denying these benefits to cohabiting families was unlawful. 21,000 families, some bereaved as long ago as 2001, could be eligible for backdated payments of Bereavement Support Payment (currently worth £9,800) or its predecessor, Widowed Parent’s Allowance."

The "Moneybox" podcast states that you must have been entitled to child benefit on the 30 August 2018 to put in a claim. You also need to be under state pension age (I assume on the same date but I am not certain) and there are two different benefits that parents might be entitled to. Parents whose partner died between 2001 and April 2017 could be eligible for backdated payment of the "Widowed Parents Allowance". Parents whose partner died after April 6 2017 could be entitled to the "Bereavement Support Payment".

The deadline for backdating claims is currently 8 Feb 2024.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001r0sl
BBC Money box programme, 30 Sept 2023/ Starts at 8:49

https://www.widowedandyoung.org.uk/about/campaigning/campaigning-for-bereaved-cohabiting-couples
#findthe21K

Go to gov.uk and type in Bereavement Support

Money Box - Energy Credit and Bereavement Support - BBC Sounds

Energy companies are holding 8 billion pounds of customers' money in the form of credit.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001r0sl

OP posts:
hedgehoglurker · 09/09/2024 21:39

I'm so sorry for you both, this is scandalous. If we'd been deemed worthy of the payments at the time, it would have helped us and our poor bereaved children at such a dark time.

I got nothing, as (for shame!) I got married years later, and you both are now worse off! I hope something will be done for you. Please keep fighting, if you have the energy. Is there a way to reject/ return the payment, if you would be "better off" without it in the long run?

SugarPlumFairyCakes · 09/09/2024 22:13

I started reading this thread just now and knew nothing about this and was feeling disheartened because of.the deadline and felt my DC has lost out again after losing their parent. I felt I failed again. I am so sorry to read the two updates though......and clearly I have dodged a bullet ....I have never had anything that has not messed up my tax and ended up being worse off. I am so sorry that us widowed parents seem to be worse off whatever happens.

Helpforthe · 09/09/2024 23:57

Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts.
@DoMiraculousThingsWithBroccoli I am so sorry to hear that you are in a similar situation. I discovered that I can ask tax credits for a mandatory reconsideration, I doubt it’s going to make any difference but it made me feel a bit better to be doing something 😆. I wonder if you could do something similar for UC. I honestly thought, and had been told, that you would be better off on UC as the payment would only affect one month but that doesn’t seem to be the case. I hope that you manage to sort something out.
My DC has come back from college today to say that his FSM have stopped, even though they are supposed to continue. Not sure where all this will end 😞.
Thinking of you all, as widowed parents, you have all done a fantastic job bringing your children up single handedly.

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