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Post Office assistant charges me incorrectly and insists I don't make complaint

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PurpleStarrySocks · 09/10/2023 20:28

I took a large letter into a branch of the Post Office to post to make sure I had the right postage on it before posting it.

The Post Office assistant said how much it'll be, then I promptly paid. As he handed me the receipt, I remembered that when I looked up how much the postage would be, it wasn't as much as he'd just charged me. So, I asked the Post Office assistant whether I'd been charged the large letter rate or the small parcel rate. He said large letter, then took my large letter again, put it through the plastic gauge thing the Post Office have and confirmed it was the size of a large letter.

I showed him the receipt, which showed that I'd been charged for a small parcel. The Post Office assistant said the computer automatically chose small parcel and not a large letter and that there wasn't anything he could have done and that he didn't do anything wrong. He then repeatedly said "I told you it was x amount before you paid." I agreed that he had, but that it shouldn't matter, as it's now come to light that I'd been charged the incorrect amount. He made it seem like it was my responsibility to know I'd been charged correctly before paying. I think I should be able to trust that a Post Office assistant charges me the correct amount.

The Post Office assistant kept saying he couldn't choose 'large letter' or 'small parcel' and that the computer chooses automatically. I said I'll take it up with the Post Office. He then kept telling me he'll lose his job if I made a complaint and that a colleague of his had lost his job for this reason. He offered to pay me the difference out of his own pocket, which I declined initially. However, he kept going on about how he'd lose his job if I made a complaint, so I felt I had no choice but to take his money just so that I could leave. The Post Office assistant looked in his wallet, didn't have the right money, so gave me the money from the takings. I felt so uncomfortable having this played out while other customers were waiting.

This Post Office is local to me and has recently come under new management. I'd never had any issues with them, or any other Post Office, in the past.

My questions are:

  1. Is it true that the Post Office assistant couldn't choose between a large letter and a small parcel? It seems unlikely to me, as how can the computer tell what size the parcel is based on the weight?
  2. Shouldn't I be able to trust that a Post Office assistant charges me the correct amount for postage and not rely on me to know whether I've been charged the correct amount before paying?
OP posts:
ZolaBudd · 09/10/2023 20:29

Oh mate.

Move on

anniegun · 09/10/2023 20:31

Given the way the Post Office prosecuted many innocent people because of known issues with their systems I would honestly let this one go

PurpleChrayne · 09/10/2023 20:32

Grow up.

Docke · 09/10/2023 20:33

You must be popular.

SisterMichaelsHabit · 09/10/2023 20:33

In the nicest possible way you've fallen down a massive rabbit hole of overthinking here. Just let it go.

SoRainbowRhythms · 09/10/2023 20:34

It's just post.

Loubelle70 · 09/10/2023 20:35

Id accept the money back and have a good day. We make mistakes, he might have fibbed but wouldn't you in this small instance to keep your job?

Forgotmylogindetails · 09/10/2023 20:35

@ZolaBudd

this made me snort laugh because that’s exactly what I was thinking 😂

Blackbyrd · 09/10/2023 20:36

He made mistake, then a bs excuse in a panic, then an appeal to your good nature. You got your money back, do you really want to get someone in trouble over a few pence? Hopefully he'll be more careful in future

Sunshineclouds11 · 09/10/2023 20:37

I wish this is all I had to worry about 😅

GoldenRuby · 09/10/2023 20:38

First question - no. Unless your large letter was heavier than the maximum weight allowed, the only way their computer would have charged you for a large letter is if the person pressed the button to say it was a small parcel.

Second question - of course.

CeeChynaa · 09/10/2023 20:39

I’m confused. So you paid too much? He charged you for a large letter when you actually had a small letter?

He gave you the change out of the till so what’s the problem? I’ve missed something but I don’t know what

ButDoYouAvocado · 09/10/2023 20:40

OH MY GOD THIS DIDNT HAPPEN TO ME TODAY TOO!

TicTacNicNak · 09/10/2023 20:40

Blimey were probably only talking a couple of quid here. You got your money back so why not leave it and move on. Do you really want someone to potentially lose their job over this?

GodblessHookyStreet · 09/10/2023 20:40

So you actually stood there and was going to accept the money from his pocket ??!!!! How much we talking ,about 39p 🤦‍♀️

Brefugee · 09/10/2023 20:41

How much are we talking about here?
Also if you had looked it up before, why did you agree to the price he told you? why not say, please check again i thought it would be x amount?

Do you really want to trust the Post Office of all people to be fair to a minimum wage employee?

Alloveragain3 · 09/10/2023 20:42

I'd wonder if it's some sort of racket.
Maybe they charge a specific amount, but pocket the difference?

Very odd he asked you not to complain. Fishy.

M4J4 · 09/10/2023 20:43

Sounds like he is deliberately charging people for small parcels and pocketing the difference. If he is making free with the takings then he is likely skimming the fat off the earnings.

Punkkitty · 09/10/2023 20:43

You should probably get out more…

To somewhere other than the Post Office..

ballsdeep · 09/10/2023 20:44

Ergh op people like you make me sick. Ffs it’s a couple of pound at best. Move on!!! You could complain and this man could be worrying for weeks about it. He could be on the verge of losing his house, sickness anything and worried about his job. Move on and grow up

icelollycraving · 09/10/2023 20:47

How much was the difference? He made a mistake, you got a refund. Let it go.

Ribena20 · 09/10/2023 20:48

Are people missing the point that, if he's doing this repeatedly and on purpose, he's potentially pocketing the difference? I.e - he is stealing?

Findingmypurposeinlife · 09/10/2023 20:51

Ribena20 · 09/10/2023 20:48

Are people missing the point that, if he's doing this repeatedly and on purpose, he's potentially pocketing the difference? I.e - he is stealing?

If he has provided a receipt (which op said he did) then it's unlikely he is making any profit.

camelfinger · 09/10/2023 20:52

I don’t see why OP is getting such a hard time. People who are good with money look after the pennies. The post office near me is the same, they overcharge on parcels. It’s part of the reason why I stopped selling things on EBay as the amount I was making was so little anyway. Quite a lot of post office services can be done online now, so you won’t get overcharged. You can print your own label and they can pick it up from your house.

AlwaysPrettyOnTheInside · 09/10/2023 20:53

Alloveragain3 · 09/10/2023 20:42

I'd wonder if it's some sort of racket.
Maybe they charge a specific amount, but pocket the difference?

Very odd he asked you not to complain. Fishy.

This. They've got a scam going in the PO.

And to everyone saying why bother over this, what if the are overcharging everyone and keeping the difference? Why should they get away with that?