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To wonder why friend/colleague copies what I say a lot?

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copycatss · 07/10/2023 18:55

I have a new colleague who I've become friends with, but I've noticed that she will copy what I say and say it back to me almost word-for-word. I'm not sure why, or whether they realise it but it often ends up feeling like I'm having a conversation with myself. It's not just the occasional thing (which I would interpret as us agreeing/having similar views), it's literally everything.

An example was I was talking to her about this difficult project and the conversation went something like:
Me: I'm so glad we both worked on project X before as the experience has been really helpful, otherwise I'd probably be stress crying at my desk
Her: I'm so glad we both worked on project X before this, otherwise I'd literally be crying!

They also try and finish my sentences constantly, as if they're trying to say what I'm going to say before I say it.

They are really nice otherwise, I've just never experienced this level of copying in a conversation before and I'm kind of confused by it

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ShakeRattleAndBang · 07/10/2023 22:34

She's probably socially awkward and admires your way of talking. Maybe nervousness, too and trying to be liked. just continue as you are she wont be like this forever

nobrasfot · 07/10/2023 22:40

Could also be on the spectrum. masking by copying, they may not realise they are doing it if they have always done it.
I act similar however I'm aware and try not to do it, for me it's peoples mannerisms and accents I start talking the same and I have to try really hard not to.

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