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To think he is being unreasonable

10 replies

Redyelloworange · 06/10/2023 09:41

I was dating a guy and it was going quite well but now I feel like he just messages me when he’s horny. He sometimes messages me late asking if I’m awake and then sometimes asking if he can come round to mine and it’s always 10pm he wants to come over. I just don’t feel comfortable with this as I’m a lone parent and I don’t really want him to come round when my child is in bed. Plus I have to get up in the morning for the school run and then straight to work. He thinks I’m being off with him and he says I’m clearly not interested in him anymore. He’s been getting in a huff about it too to be honest. His last message was ‘do you want a visitor tonight, it’s a yes or no answer’. Just makes me feel like he thinks that’s all I’m there for.

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pippinsleftleg · 06/10/2023 09:42

He’s just after a booty call. If you’re not interested just block him.

10HailMarys · 06/10/2023 09:42

It’s very, very obvious that he’s just using you for sex.

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 06/10/2023 09:44

Well, it's obvious he's after a booty call. And even if it wasn't, his passive aggressive attitude and unwillingness to understand would be off-putting enough to leave

Safxxx · 06/10/2023 09:56

Please have some self respect because clearly he doesn't respect you.
His only after one thing and if you want more from the relationship then you need to tell him and not let him treat you like this.
If this carries on you will be left hurt and used. So put a stop to it now.

Lobelia123 · 06/10/2023 10:13

This guys got a nerve - treating you absolutely as a last stop when he's hrny, and getting the huff when you wont allow yourself to be used! Sorry to be crude, but tell him to use his hand if he;s that desperate, you are worth more than the the offhand and borderline rude and disrespectful way he is treating you. Im assuming he doesnt have a solid gold dick or anything that any other man can offer.

determinedtomakethiswork · 06/10/2023 10:16

God, he's making this very obvious, isn't he? You would have to be desperate to say yes to that kind offer.

billy1966 · 06/10/2023 10:19

Of course he is being absolutely disrespectful and treating you like a booty call.

Block him and don't respond.

I do not believe such disrespect warrants a response.

bigshort · 06/10/2023 10:21

Just makes me feel like he thinks that’s all I’m there for

You think? I mean, he might as well have tattooed "booty call" on your face, that's how obvious it is.

DustyLee123 · 06/10/2023 10:21

Ew, just block him.

CalistoNoSolo · 06/10/2023 10:24

Oh god, just tell the creep to fuck off and block him.

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