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To take this further with the school? Mistreatment of dog on playground

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VitaminX · 04/10/2023 11:29

Something I witnessed yesterday when I was picking up my son from the after-school club. There was a little dog tied up at the edge of the playground - which is perhaps not wise and I wouldn't leave a dog there alone if I had one, but it's not against any rules.

I saw three boys in my son's year (meaning they were 5 or 6 years old) tormenting the dog. They were running right up to him in an aggressive way, bending down and shouting right in his face and spitting on him. It was horrible to see and the poor dog was obviously highly stressed. There was a staff member outside but she was playing football with some other kids and hadn't noticed what they were doing. I told the boys to stop it and informed the most senior staff member who called them inside and told them 'the dog doesn't like that'.

Obviously not all children have experience of dogs so I can understand that running and shouting around them is sometimes not meant in a bad way and they just need educating. But they were shouting rude things at the dog (not that the dog cares about that, but I think it indicates that they didn't mean to be friendly to him) and I don't think there can be any reasonable explanation for the spitting.

I described what I'd seen in the parents' group chat, not naming the children of course but just saying can everyone make sure their kids know that this isn't acceptable behaviour and can be dangerous because frightened dogs are much more likely to bite.

I feel it was a very disturbing and serious incident. WIBU to send a follow up email to the school, which is separate from the after-school, about this? Maybe suggesting it could be made against the rules to leave dogs unattended on the playground, for everyone's safety? And that someone speak to the children about the importance of being kind to animals (which you would think that they should have learned at home but obviously not).

Or should I just trust that it has been dealt with appropriately?

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Excited101 · 04/10/2023 15:03

Definitely follow it up op, that’s horrific, absolutely disgraceful behaviour from children who are more than old enough to know better.

But then, I see parents let their kids torment pigeons all the time, maybe some kids just apply that to other animals 🤷‍♀️

dcsp · 04/10/2023 15:04

I described what I'd seen in the parents' group chat, not naming the children of course but just saying can everyone [...]

This implies you knew who the children were. If so, why go for the vague "can everyone..." approach meaning that some parents of blameless children will probably accuse them of doing this, rather than DMing the parents in question?

spitefulandbadgrammar · 04/10/2023 15:07

Absolutely email and don’t worry about getting dogs banned from the playground – they should be! Our school requests that they’re not even brought on the school run.

Shade17 · 04/10/2023 15:09

A bite from a small dog is probably what they need TBH, it’d teach them a valuable lesson without too much harm.

VitaminX · 04/10/2023 15:15

I only know the names of 2 out of the 3 kids. I don't know, I just wanted to make people aware without making it personal but maybe it was the wrong thing to do. I also suggested that dog owners shouldn't leave their dogs unattended there, which was relevant to a lot of other parents.

Can I make it clear that I do not think these children are 'psychopaths'. But I do think it was far beyond normal kids messing around and being silly.

I will leave it there with regards to their behaviour as it is not my business to know if or how it has been handled. But I will ask the school if they would consider asking dog owners not to leave them unattended at pick up for safety reasons.

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