holiday meet-up

[anastasia74]

I went away skiing with my family a few months ago. We got friendly with a man who was away on his own whilst there. He was ok - but kept attaching himself to us, when we were going out at night. (just me and my husband). Whilst there my husband and I had arguments because of him taking off with this guy drinking at night. This happened 3 times at night. I felt like he had intruded on my holiday. Now he has contacted us wanting to meet up to go skiing at snow dome. I am very reluctant to go, as the feeling of him spoiling my holiday will not go away. what should i do as my husband obviously gets on with him very well.

If you don't want to go you could arrange to do somthing more up your street whilst your DH spends time with his New Best Friend at the SnowDome.

No need to make it into a big issue, just say you don't fancy it. He doesn't sound too stalkerish bearing in mind you've been back from holiday for a few months.

I think you're being a bit harsh. This guy was on holiday on his own, probably hit it off with your OH and wants to stay in touch. As adults, it's quite rare to make new friends and I think it should be encouraged. If you don't want to go to the snow dome, do something else instead but don't stop your husband enjoying a friendship. Don't think he's being stalkerish at all.

If you don't want to go thats fair but I think its a bit harsh to stop your DH.

If your DH made the chap feel welcome on your holiday its not his (the other blokes) fault.

I don't think there is anything wrong with them meeting up and keeping in touch.