My Ds has just started college 3 weeks ago. I work early hours of morning weds to sat, so am available to take him to and from the train station from our village except on a Thurs morning when mil does it. He phones me every time he needs picking up but the problem is even in the three weeks he's been there I've also given lifts to his friends 5 times. These friends don't live in our village so I'm having to go out of my way to drop them off. I got so peeved after last night's excursion I said to Ds "are you ever going to phone me to say you're getting a lift home?". I allowed my ds to attend a non local college as I knew that I was able to get him to and from the train station and didn't want to rely on any lifts (not including mil who is a family member), so you would assume his friends parents would be able to do the same? I was also told on weds that one of these friends is now on the same timetable as my Ds after next week and wants to make lift arrangements. Now I'm (sort of) willing to do this if the other parents put in 50% but I'm not sure if this is going to be the case but I don't know what to do as I don't want to cause any issue between my Ds and his friend.