I have one child who is five years old. DH and I said we wouldn't have anymore.
But now I want one more. The cons out weigh the pros but I can't change how I feel.
Dh is definitely done. He has kids (4) from a previous marriage and eldest is 20 as well as our joint five year old. Dh is 40 now and definitely doesn't want anymore.
And neither did I. It was a traumatic birth and crap pregnancy. I struggled with lack of sleep and have only really started to enjoy parenting in the last year or so now DS is older.
I just can't get over wanting another even though all round logically it seems a bad idea.