Hello.. it's took me many many years to come to terms with the fact that I'm in an abusive relationship, out of fear I have taken a massive amount of mental/ emotional abuse for many years. It's so easily disguised when it very gradually gets worse and worse over time, you allow more and more as time goes by, I think that's why it's so hard to sit and think this might be bad.. I'm reaching breaking point and I've began to think weather I want to live this life anymore but I do for my babies but not like this, not with him. I've protected him and his actions for far to long and today I'm giving up I've took not stop crap for days, With multiple outbursts a day, We've been together 7 years and I don't even have my own bank account we have always used his. (I was a child when we met only just turned 18) I don't know how to get me and my 2 children out (my children are well and safe before anyone asks all his actions and nasty words are done out of my children's way) we live 6 hours away from any of my family and support, I don't know the first step. I'm absolutely certain he will do anything to make my life hell so that's another thing I need to think about. If anyone has gone through the same and got out please how did you do it.