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To be confused by friend?

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movedonfromsmithy · 26/09/2023 09:38

Quick backstory.

Friends since we were 14, now almost 50.

In 2013 we both had a child each (hers via IVF) and she was trying for another (again through IVF). I got pregnant which wasn't planned and because of this she literally ghosted me for 8 years, no contact whatsoever. I sadly ended up losing my pregnancy at 12 weeks (twins).

2021 out of the blue she calls me, crying, having relationship issues. For the next two years I was there for her every-single-day to listen to her problems. I can genuinely say, I reckon I can count of one hand the amount of times she asked how I was.... anyway, the point is, we were back in contact and things were going well....

In April she stops all contact again, there was no argument/disagreement, up to that point everything was fine. I have no idea what happened. I text last week and she obviously hasn't replied. Which she won't.

I am so confused....

OP posts:
DustyLee123 · 26/09/2023 09:39

Why do you let her use you ?

sunshinenshower · 26/09/2023 09:48

She is a selfish user. She has gotten used to using and abusing you and probably thinks you will come running back as soon as she calls. Block her. Don't let her do it ever again.

It's a horrible feeling to be ghosted (again) like this. It's cruel and humiliating and makes you question yourself.

It's her loss, not yours Flowers

Mothership4two · 26/09/2023 10:13

She has proved, now more than once, that she is not your friend

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