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I’m So Lonely

26 replies

Lastandfirst · 21/09/2023 22:35

I literally feel so sad this evening.

I’ve realised I’ve no group of friends and I’ve no idea how it’s happened.

I’m in my 40’s with two primary school aged kids. I feel like I’m out the other side is sleepless nights and the kids are more independent.

My husband who I adore, works really long hours and can be away a lot. Or spends the evening tapping away on his laptop.

We live near my husbands family but never ask them to babysit.

But I’ve no friends, I’ve other mums I see and we help each other out with lifts to kids clubs etc but that’s about it.

My husband freely admits he’s anti-social and would rather stay at home but I’m not or never used to be. We never have people over unless it’s family, hardly go out because even tho we could ask any of the in-laws we just don’t.

Tonight I’ve literally looked at weekend breaks away for one person.

Is this a stage of life? I didn’t see it coming … how do you make friends when everyone seems to have a group 😞

OP posts:
Chickenkeev · 22/09/2023 09:13

Lastandfirst · 22/09/2023 09:08

Yes, I think I need to look a bit harder. If it helps I live in a small village in Ireland. It rains a lot… don’t know why that’s relevant but feel it should be 😆

I think there is a massive gap in the market in this area for stuff when you are between life stages.

@Chickenkeev 100% need to address the work life balance with my husband. When I say he’s on his laptop he’s working. He’s a good man but since lockdown I’ve found the lines between work and home massively blurred.

Thank you all … I needed a kick up the arse to change my situation and be more pro-active.

Waving from Ireland :) just re DH, you may need to take a hard stance on the working. It is not uncommon for people to piddle about rather than go downstairs and face reality. So do be mindful of that. Go néirigh an bóthar leat!

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