Once you get involved in mental health services, you will find that staff are so much in short supply, that even getting any appointment is a matter of luck.
Professionally, mental health is not inundated with candidates. It is a very difficult job, limited by the shit system called “care in the community”, and is often completely thankless as the people you help often don’t have insight to express appreciation. It is a constant war zone- anyone who makes a career of it deserves a fecking medal .
my ex had “severe and enduring” mental illness. 1 psychologist for the whole of a regional areas’ under 65 year olds. He saw 1 mental health worker per year. Even he got one set of group therapies in 10 years, no individual therapy despite NICE guidelines.
So, primary care services, like you’re seeing, are financed separately, but remain massively under staffed too. Lack of funding, lack of bums on seats and huge vacancies.
staff doing that job cannot work 18 hour days to do extended appointments- you’d need shift rotas. There isn’t the staff or money .
so, yes, you’re right they SHOULD be more flexible, but it will never happen . Even with more money there aren’t the people wanting the jobs in this discipline
if your assessments are under NHS or private medical care, then yes you ”should” be allowed for time out to attend in same way as any other medical appointment depending on your company contract - that contract will define if you have to take unpaid leave/ holidays or they’ll cover wages. Theoretically they could say no. But they are required to make reasonable adjustments for any disability that needs medical appointments - if your mental health issue is long term, then that may be an angle to pursue. But These assessments are the same as going for physical tests like X-rays. They’re designed for professional to understand what your issues are and what the replies would be best for you. They can’t start actual sessions (treatment) till you’ve had thst diagnosis and assessment . Most companies aren’t going to risk you being signed off sick becuase you can’t get treatment for mental health issues - these are some of most difficult conditions for managers to manage and can end up in long absences. They’ll want to avoid that. Be open and upfront with your manager when asking, but you can tell them to discuss with no one else without your prior consent.
if you’ve gone to a non qualified private counsellor it may be different, and be very careful. Anyone can claim to be a counsellor or therapist. Check you’re dealing with someone who is part of professional body and is actually qualified with a psychology degree and post graduate training. I have experienced some very bad counselling that have done actual harm before I twigged this