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To think that this was not normal and possibly close to CSA?

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Springoose · 19/09/2023 20:20

I didn't know which category to post this under, and I hope that this question won't trigger people. Genuine question because I am not sure about this.
I had a conversation with my BF which disturb me somewhat because it sounded disgusting and inappropriate to me.

He said growing up it was "normal" to see some sexual acts between his parents (not intercourse), and that he was also questioned about his feelings whenever adult intimate scenes were seen on TV. He did say that it made him feel uncomfortable, and that he thinks it had been funny to them. He said he was never touched or made to touch anyone, so it doesn't consider it bad.

He inisted that he is not bothered by it now but he is the type of person who won't tell you when something is wrong. The last thing I want to do is drag this topic back up if he doesn't want to discuss it, but this surely has to be wrong on so many different levels?? More than happy to be told that I am unreasonable here

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AlwaysPrettyOnTheInside · 19/09/2023 20:30

If he's happy to leave it alone, and is at peace with it, leave it alone. Its up to him how he feels about it.

If you go on to have children though just don't let the gp's anywhere near.

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