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Are teacher messaging apps reasonable?

232 replies

Elendel · 19/09/2023 19:01

I am a teacher in a secondary school.

I started in a new place a few months back. In this place, parents have an app on which they, and students, can message us 24/7 and we are expected to reply as soon as possible, but latest within 24h. The app filters out swearing, but other than that it can be a free-for-all.

I do not have time to respond within a typical school day as I am either teaching, in a meeting or on duty, and with briefings as well, responding to parents either falls within the 15min lunch I get (unpaid) or outside of those hours. Time is fully directed between 8.15 and 4.30 each day and PPA is the absolute minimum school can get away with.

Messages arrive any time between midnight (some students messaging at 1am!) and midnight again, but parents most often message after work (understandably) and will expect us to have responded by mid-day. Some are messages about reasons why homework isn't done, some are asking me about what happened in other subjects, yet others are to challenge detentions given.

Is this level of communication acceptable? It just feels like I'm never off work, because I spend a considerable amount of time responding to the messages of the 1200 students and their parents on top of doing my actual day job to keep up with communication demands.

YABU - get on with it, it's your job

YANBU - that's ridiculous

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Mumofsend · 19/09/2023 19:03

That's ridiculous!

napody · 19/09/2023 19:03

Is this a UK state school?! Very, very far beyond reasonable as a demand. Contact your union.

tryingsomethingnew · 19/09/2023 19:04

YANBU- how ridiculous! Can't believe the school have even signed you up for this.

Elendel · 19/09/2023 19:04

UK Academy

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latenightpartyrings · 19/09/2023 19:05

Completely ridiculous.

Maddy70 · 19/09/2023 19:06

napody · 19/09/2023 19:03

Is this a UK state school?! Very, very far beyond reasonable as a demand. Contact your union.

Pretty standard in UK state schools I'm afraid

noblegiraffe · 19/09/2023 19:06

Fucksake no of course it's not reasonable. Did your school workload-assess it?

Even with parental emails 2 working days is a tight response time.

Backtothe90ties · 19/09/2023 19:07

You need to get in touch with your union that is completely unacceptable. I believe they can ask you to download an app but you don’t have to either. Do all teachers at the school engage with this?

Baconisdelicious · 19/09/2023 19:08

You need your union to get on to it. You are not at work 24-7 and nor are you paid to be, let alone should you be expected to be. What are your colleagues saying?

BitingKat · 19/09/2023 19:08

No chance would I have that!
I don't even have school emails on my personal phone!

Dadfromthesea · 19/09/2023 19:10

This is an absolute outrage.

As a parent, I’d never ask for it. And if it existed and if the school said ‘Sorry, we’re withdrawing it because teachers need time off’ I’d applaud them.

Elendel · 19/09/2023 19:11

The app isn't on our phones if we don't want to, but it's online and the same expectations apply. I am literally messaging as I am responding to yet another parent (who messages me several times daily).

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cansu · 19/09/2023 19:12

Utterly ridiculous. At the least the app should not allow messages to be sent out of hours. That sounds so awful that I would be reconsidering my future there. In the meantime make your line manager aware of the times you will and will not be able to check the app.

Pix56 · 19/09/2023 19:12

Dadfromthesea · 19/09/2023 19:10

This is an absolute outrage.

As a parent, I’d never ask for it. And if it existed and if the school said ‘Sorry, we’re withdrawing it because teachers need time off’ I’d applaud them.

Absolute outrage 😂😂

Stopsnowing · 19/09/2023 19:14

I only ema the school office. We have been given teacher emails but I won’t use them. They need time and space to teach!

ArticSaviour · 19/09/2023 19:14

Fuck that. We don't even respond to emails between 6pm - 8am. (Well, we do but we are not expected to)

MsJuniper · 19/09/2023 19:14

We use Dojo for messaging but it's a primary school so I only have 32 sets of parents. In general it works well but I can set "quiet hours" where I parents do not expect a response (6pm-8am). What you are describing sounds horrendous though!

AtomicBlondeRose · 19/09/2023 19:14

I teach in a college and we have Teams where students can message us, but we’re under no obligations to reply in any particular time frame and certainly not outside college hours unless we choose to. We all have iPads but I don’t tend to take mine home so I don’t see the messages anyway.

Sleepyteach · 19/09/2023 19:15

I’m a teacher but in FE so a bit different, but my daughter has just started primary school and they have really clear boundaries on the apps they use. They aim to reply within 48 hours during the week but this is an aim not a guarantee and they have asked us to avoid messaging outside of 8-5 wherever possible, I think this is reasonable and balanced in terms of both teachers and parents needs, and each teacher
only has 30 kids to deal with! Your situation sounds awful TBH, and I definitely wouldn’t be responding outside of the working day, and if it doesn’t get done, it doesn’t get done. I would flag with HOD/line manager and also raise with your union because it is clearly unsustainable.

Elendel · 19/09/2023 19:17

Oh, I've had people getting very shirty with me when I didn't respond within 12h, let alone 24.

But I am glad that it isn't the norm everywhere.

Unfortunately, unions mean Jack shit in academies if they don't recognise them.

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Glorifried · 19/09/2023 19:18

I work in a school and our signature specifically says that people should not expect replies out of school time.

Yours would drive me insane 😵

napody · 19/09/2023 19:18

Maddy70 · 19/09/2023 19:06

Pretty standard in UK state schools I'm afraid

It really, really isn't.

napody · 19/09/2023 19:20

Elendel · 19/09/2023 19:04

UK Academy

Ugh, sorry to hear this.

Maddy70 · 19/09/2023 19:20

napody · 19/09/2023 19:18

It really, really isn't.

Every single one I've worked In. Its so much additional pressure

ginandtonicwithlimes · 19/09/2023 19:21

napody · 19/09/2023 19:20

Ugh, sorry to hear this.

You sound snobby.

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