I’m not a huge Facebook user (although I was back in the late 2000s when it was new) but since having children I do use it occasionally and am a member of a few local parent ‘days out’ and ‘things to do’ groups, for local activities, sharing events etc. They can be really helpful.
But literally every time someone posts something like ‘I’m looking for something to do this weekend with my 1yo, no more than an hour from My City’, someone else will comment ‘Toddlers don’t need big days out, try the local park, feeding the ducks, baking, or a walk in the woods’ etc. It’s got worse now Halloween activities are advertised, especially if the OP mentions having very young children - ‘they don’t notice the where they are at that age, mine were happy just splashing in puddles and making mud pies.’
Are these people seriously suggesting the OP wouldn’t have ever taken her kid for a walk in the park or the local woods, and has probably done all that many many times but fancies something new? That the OP will be grateful for the advice to ‘just go feed the ducks’? It’s so patronising and gets right on my nerves*
*I’m stuck at home with a stinkin’ cold today which may account for my grumpiness