A few months back I had concerns over a girl on my boyfriend's Facebook. I am not usually the jealous type, but I did notice a pattern.
They liked each others photos (just them, never the ones with each others partners etc). Every status update they both put up, they were liking them, apart from the ones concerning me, or her boyfriend. Her photos were all deliberately posed with tits out etc.
Anyhow, I had confronted him about the pattern I seen, as he never seemed to bring up this girls name despite having a few female friends that I was aware of.
He had met her off Tinder a few months before meeting me. They met for coffee once (so he says) but it didn't progress as they seemed more "friendly" than "romantic" and she was also not his type because she was "fat" (I don't think she is, but these were his words). He said he liked her posts and photos to be "friendly".
Obviously I had challenged him on what he actually thought a "friend" was, as I certainly don't have men I had met once on Tinder on my social media. He said they helped each other through the trauma of their past abusive relationships but had only met face to face once.
Anyhow, I told him I thought this was weird, as "friends" especially those helping you through past trauma, would also be liking your posts and photos with your other half etc and I again questioned the pattern. When probed again, he removed her off his social media and said sorry.
Anyhow, a couple months later (I'm just nosy!) I see her Facebook again on my suggested friends. They are still unfriended but low and behold - she has broken up with this boyfriend and seems to have jumped straight in with another guy (literally says between).
AIBU to think this has actually validated my concerns from the start? Or was I acting unreasonable from the start?