I have 2 male rabbits that mostly live outdoors, but I have a covered area outside my back door where their hutches are, and they are in large runs in the garden during the day. During the winter when the weather is bad I have them in the house during the day.
You should keep rabbits in pairs, but like a previous poster, both mine are rescues and they have fought everytime I have tried to bond them, but they seem to like each other as long as there is mesh between them so they can see each other from their hutches and their runs are next to each other.
Both my males love being stroked and fussed over, and they cuddle and snuggle into my neck. Rabbits do make a purry/clicky noise when they are very happy which is lovely to hear. I also have had 2 female rabbits who were also very affectionate and would groom me, so I have never noticed one gender being more affectionate than another. The main thing with my male rabbits was they sprayed until they were neutered.
I think rabbits are lovely pets and I don't feel it is a chore looking after them, but I probably spend at least 2-3 hours a day (broken up into smaller amounts of time) seeing to them, cleaning them out and playing with them. But this is something I love doing so it doesn't seem a chore. Also i love the smell of rabbits and hay and straw so they don't always smell. Although one of mine definately has smellier wee than the other.
Both my rabbits will actively seek people out for affection when they are free roaming, they will nudge your legs and feet until provided with strokes or cuddles (or chew through DP's shoe laces). Mine current 2 are not too destructive, but when I have them in the house they are always supervised and if I can't do that they are confined to the kitchen where they can't really damage anything, but one is worse than the other for chewing and over the years we have had 2 lamp cables, an aerial cable and a charging cable chewed through. Also I thought he was very good at not chewing wooden things that weren't his toys until we upturned our old sofa to take it to the tip where I discovered that despite being watched whilst in the lounge he has still at some point managed to do a lot of chewing to the underneath of the wooden frame.
So if you do plan to have them inside just make sure you rabbit proof things. I just think they are awesome pets and I couldn't be without them.