Ok so I am a parent myself let me just say this and I am also very reasonable and patient but also when I get pushed too far I have a habit of just snapping which happened.
I've had an on going with my neighbour about her kids and how they constantly kick my door, shout rude offensive things to my DD6 and she's told me she will handle it etc etc anyway nothings changed this is 3 years ongoing.
Her kids also have form for punching other younger kids and swearing at other adults. I've put up with her and I've let so much slide. I finally snapped they were booting my door and I shouted very loud to get away from my door you d*kheads.
To which she came out to finally see what was happening but not to all the noise of them booting off my door in the first place. I absolutely lost it with her and said I didn't have the patience anymore to speak with her that her kids need to learn some manners and no one else's kid's behaviour is like this.
She tried to say just talk to me I'm so sorry and I was so mad I slammed the door in her face.
AIBU ? And tbh her kids are d*kheads which is down to her lack of strict parenting and basic manners.