Lost sight of reasonable expectations at work

[JustTheOne11]

Feeling in a bad way and I’d like to know if you find the following unacceptable at work or if I should just suck it up:
Micromanaging. Hauled into multiple meetings daily to “critique” my work. Always more than one senior manager and always highly critical. It could, and often is, of the tiniest thing. Never anything positive
Speaking over and interrupting
Patronising when in a good mood “Even I make mistakes sometimes”
Refusing to clarify instructions when asked “I’ve just told you”
Not providing sufficient training to do my job
Complaining about how busy they are and how late they worked last night (assume expectation is that I follow suit)
Constant interruptions so I can’t complete my work and am moved to support another team, resulting in a break of concentration leading to silly mistakes.
Im deliberately excluded from conversations which doesn’t bother me that much but it demonstrates their lack of humanity
They use excuses (possibly quite valid) to not go into the office such as child care. I don’t have children therefore it’s fine for me. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve no problem going in, it’s an expectation.
Im at breaking point, frequently break down and don’t know whats reasonable any more. I’ve lost all confidence.
The boss is v rude and aggressive so I’m assuming they try to emulate him. I have no significant contact with him, he’s too important and bloody terrifies me. It’s a team of 3 so no one to talk to about it.
I feel sick every morning and am losing sight of what’s reasonable. AIBU?

That sounds awful, it’s bullying. Do you have a HR department or a union? I’d start keeping a log of incidents whilst you decide what to do.

I thought I should begin to keep a log. Yes, I’m a member of a union. I wasn’t sure if it’s unreasonable but I think if someone else came to me I would give it that name. I just feel sapped of confidence. Sometimes they are ok which makes me doubt myself.

How long have you been there, and has it always been a problem?

Keep a log, contact HR & your union. Not acceptable at all. Start looking for another job, easier to get one whilst you still have one.

7 months and it’s got increasingly worse

Get out of there, it sounds toxic

@TestingTestingWonTooFree I have been thinking this is the best option. Until this point I wanted to hold on, to prove I’m a good team member who’s competent but I think I’m fighting a losing battle. I perhaps needed some validation given my crisis of confidence.

I'd start looking for another job asap

Should bloody awful. Really completely incompetent management techniques probably coming from the senior leadership. Just find another job. It's not you

Thank you for the replies, everyone. I’m going to begin job hunting tomorrow. While I’ve still the ability to sell myself. I nearly went sick today with nervous exhaustion but I know the damage this would do worrying what was going on in my absence. I dread to think what they’re reporting up the chain as it is!