Spider nerds actively go out looking for 'freebies'... in fruit from supermarkets, plants from garden centres...
If you find someone who appears to be weirdly peering at fruit or at plants... its probably a spider nerd.
The good thing is if you join the spider nerd group (british spider identification) ... they will rehome any weird spiders you find on your bananas and grapes and so on.
Hybridisation - in spiders, rare, it has happened with the house spider group but generally speaking, as theres a high risk of death when it comes to getting jiggy, and each species has its own routine, they need to be very closely related and behave in similar ways, even before you consider whether the DNA allows for hybridisation. You can't cross say a tarantula with a garden spider any more than you could cross a cat with a dog... even if both were willing!
@ImustLearn2Cook nope, whilst its a clever way of distributing young, lots of species don't do this - the young just have to run for it, and quickly because for many species once they're hatched theres only a day or so before they become cannibalistic!
Sizes.. unlike a lot of arthropods that went through a period of being absolutely fucking massive... spiders haven't really or... rather... that period is now!
There are no true spider fossils/evidence of anything significantly bigger than what we currently have in either the tarantulas or the orb-weavers (though, not in the UK!) - there are some scientific oopsies that turned out to be aquatic and one or two fakes though.
It's pretty hard being a giant arthropod - their manner of respiration is not anywhere near as effective as ours and exoskeletons are a clunky and cumbersome thing to move around, and they require moulting for growth... which if you're a labrador sized spider is a bit of a sod and means you can't eat for two months and will sit around all squishy and vulnerable, unable to move or defend yourself for several days each time...
So these things limit maximum size (and much more so on land than in water), even if we had a much more oxygen rich atmosphere than we do now - which we did in the Carboniferous, the giant arthropod era, between 26% and sometimes over 30% vs the current 21%, it still needs other factors...
Mostly, a lack of predators and unlike the Carboniferous period, there are now lots of birds who love a nice insecty snack. Not sure what would take out an Arthropleura though... a sort of land-rover sized milipede!
This seems to be my rabbit-hole of the day... :D disappears down it