Life here, today, is better than the vast majority of places on earth.
This is an extremely tolerant and inclusive country, compared to most. If you disagree, I'd like to hear about where you think is better.
I agree that healthcare is probably better in a few other countries, but here we are obsessed with worshipping 'Our NHS' – yet wonder why no other nation has copied it. There are better systems, but we've got some mad quasi-religious attachment to ours.
I think consumerism has really skewed our priorities. My grandmother owned very little 'stuff' compared to what we own today. She spent her money on food, rent/mortgage and necessary household goods. She didn't have a £500 phone, a laptop, a £40,000 car, new clothes every month, TV subscriptions and all the other stuff we now think is essential. But it's considered deeply weird to live a simple life now. And we are products of our time, so it's hard not to go along with what everyone else is doing.
I would love to know what proportion of her monthly income she spent on food. I think we would consider it very high.
I'm no Pollyanna, I complain, just like the OP. But we could all do with a bit of perspective, and maybe the willingness to rejig our priorities.