Random question. My partner is away on lads holiday for 5 days - well middle aged man holiday. My friend thinks it’s weird he has hardly contacted me and it spells trouble or an affair or cheating. He has texted short replies a few times a day, but no conversation really. Just telling me what they are doing. Mostly drinking and sunbathing.
I think it’s normal as he is busy with his mates, sleeping or drunk. I wouldn’t expect him on a night out in uk to text lots. We don’t really have a text conversation as we talk in real life as we live together. I am Sure he would answer if I called him, but no need to be clingy. I have had a great time enjoying peace and out with friends.
I dropped him and a mate off at another mates house to get a taxi and had to endure lots of conversations on them planning to relive their youth whilst away. So I know he is not away with another woman.
So what is normal? Should I be worried? My friend who said this has been cheated on in the past and says lack of communication and weekends away with the lads was a sign he was having an affair.
I am secure in my relationship and don’t need validation via text but she has me thinking that limited communication is a bad thing.