Me and my husband are in our 50's. I still look and feel like 30's and have looked after myself. Husband not so much. Over the past couple of years this has become very noticeable and it's a lot worse. We arrange to go out in the afternoons so he does jobs around the house and garden in the morning. However, he does not get changed and often the clothes are a bit grubby, marks on them, food he's dropped on himself etc. His trainers are dirty as well and i often ask him to give them a clean which he will do. His oral hygiene is not great and his teeth are stained and he never uses dental floss hence he often has bad breath and bits of food stuck in his teeth. Same with not keeping up with deodorant or washing under arms with sweaty smells. He just says he showers every day so not his fault. Our sex life was suffering anyway due to ED but now it's non existent! I just feel repulsed by him. Trying to discuss it with him is useless as he just says i'm over reacting and it's not that important. Our son has broached the subject with him and he laughs it off even when told mum is not happy. I'm thinking of leaving him. He is often accident prone around the house and getting more untidy and leaving mess. I just want him back the way he was really but he won't listen.