I live in the same area as my exes family
i got rid of him after he was abusive to me mentally and physically for years
hitting, cheating, belittling me, calling me ugly, his family disliked me for no reason whatsoever
I cooked and cleaned for him - until 2 years ago I had enough . I was emotionally connected to this man for some reason I just couldn’t get him out my system- I loved him even after all he did
i still hug his old hoodie he left here when I’m lonely- I’ll never go back to him though , but the hoodie reminds me of happier times when I was pregnant and looking forward to my life
fast forward it’s been two Years since I’ve got him out my life
I have a really good male friend that I knew from college that I have re connected with. I’m now 44. We are just friends as I’m not looking for anything and neither is he as I’m not ready -we have very similar interests-nothing sexual or romantics but enjoy the same type of films going out places, et cetera - just like having a female friend, but a male.
The problem here is that he has found out about my friend
for the past four months, I’m having disgusting texts from him, calling me a whore a bad mum , he’s saying he is taking me to court for custody as I have a man around my daughter at home and being promiscuous in front of her
I’ve had several photographs sent of me and my friend out and about together, taken by People that he knows, and his family who live locally. He won’t say exactly who. Every now and again, I get a photo of us out together and disgusting textS
today he picked her up from school without telling me which panicked me . Am I Aloowed to tell school he can’t pick her up ? He has PR
I told the lady at After School Club about the nasty texts he’s been sending, and that he had picked her up without telling me now I’m worried that she’s going to contact social services as I said to the lady I may contact the police about the messages he’s been sending .
I told him today that his family are no longer permitted to see her or have anything to do with her because of these photographs-or unless he says who it is - am I wrong in saying that ? I don’t want to prevent her from having a family relationship with them, but I just can’t take looking over my shoulder anymore.