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AIBU?

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That teachers should have templates for things that happen year in year out?

94 replies

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 17:23

I'm not sure if it's just my children's school but there hasn't been the greatest communication...

No info on which classroom to drop child off at
No info on PE days
No info on school clubs
No info on anything at all really

AIBU to think that teachers should have a template for things that happen year in year out? Surely it's helpful?!

Like start at the start of the year have a checklist of things you need to communicate and then do it?

Sure you might have to tweak it year to year but I feel like schools lack such basic efficiency in admin, it kind of makes the school look rubbish.

And I definitely don't get the feeling it's because they're just "really focussed" on the actual teaching.

I feel like if you can't do the basics it doesn't really fill me with confidence that you can do the complicated stuff 🤷‍♀️

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nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:00

StripyHorse · 11/09/2023 19:50

You do know that after school clubs are usually run by staff volunteering their time. In most schools I know, they don't get sent out until a few weeks in - in part because they need to organise who I'd happy to run what, spread them across the week and fit in with potential other commitments in school and outside of school for those teachers.

Likewise, organising PE can be a fine art, managed around PPA sessions and potentially other uses for the hall (some schools have playgroups in theirs to help boost numbers).

Not in my school, they are outsourced to different companies.

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Shinyandnew1 · 11/09/2023 20:01

Probably because it's in drip feed in the format of an email per item.

So, it sounds like the school has given you the information but you don’t personally like how they’ve given it to you?

ThrallsWife · 11/09/2023 20:02

Oh goody. You're one of those parents.

FYI, the vast majority of teachers work extremely hard. I'm currently averaging 12h/day whilst being paid for 7h. ASK nicely and you might receive.

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:05

SchoolAdminNeverGoodEnough · 11/09/2023 19:34

How about fuck off to anyone complaining about School Admin?

I bet a whole heap of this stuff you want to know about it on the school website. Have you looked there?

And just so you get off your high, patronising "just do it properly" horse a few things to think about:

We are paid barely anything.
Frequently told things piecemeal, too late or not in synchronisation with everything else.
Often not told anything at all.
As PP said, so much changes from July to 1st September and then even from 1st Sept to start of term.
Jane (student) has been in an accident. Her timetable needs to be adjusted due to her injuries. This takes the carefully planned timetable, throws it into 27 billion pieces and means it all changes.
And our job (sorry) is 1% communicating with parents, 95% about keeping children safe and 4% other stuff.

And September...you know...busy. Because parents have moved without telling us they are withdrawing their children. Still on holiday without telling us. Not having filled in the data forms we need and then complaining because you cannot log on to the comms app. Complaining "why are you only sending this to me and not their father.....BECAUSE YOU ONLY GAVE US YOUR EMAIL!"

And if we email you with too much you will only read the first 2 bullet points and ignore the rest.

Just fuck off.

<feels a bit better now>

Edited

😂 I bet you spend more time whinging then actually doing your job.

My request is quite simple - have a template/checklist document that you use EVERY YEAR so that you know you have communicated all the info you need to at the beginning of the term.

Or is it a surprise every year to you that school starts in September and there's certain things that need to be in place and communicated by then?

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nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:08

ThrallsWife · 11/09/2023 20:02

Oh goody. You're one of those parents.

FYI, the vast majority of teachers work extremely hard. I'm currently averaging 12h/day whilst being paid for 7h. ASK nicely and you might receive.

Oh goody you're one of those posters. I haven't slated teachers I've asked that there be a checklist so that they know they have definitely communicated info to parents.

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SchoolAdminNeverGoodEnough · 11/09/2023 20:18

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:05

😂 I bet you spend more time whinging then actually doing your job.

My request is quite simple - have a template/checklist document that you use EVERY YEAR so that you know you have communicated all the info you need to at the beginning of the term.

Or is it a surprise every year to you that school starts in September and there's certain things that need to be in place and communicated by then?

And whilst you are there, fick off some more.

Inter-school communications/emails (eg CTF file tranfsers) requests for safeguarding info have been hiting my inbox at 9,10,11pm at night over the last few days, including over the weekend. Between school admin staff. Who barely make 21/22K per annum. And are not paid overtime.

Just fuck off with your smiling fucking face.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 11/09/2023 20:19

I agree OP. Sorry, school admin folk on here. I do think it's admin rather than teachers, but my god some of the duplication of labour and odd cul de sacs we seem to go down at my school.

EC clubs - hugely oversubscribed, so an email goes out at x time with y info about how to book. Except every term, the email doesn't go out when it's promised, and at least one key bit of info is missing - football is for KS1 not KS2, science club is on Mondays not Tuesdays, French wasn't on the timetable but exists... These are paid clubs with external providers btw, with nary a staff member in sight.

I am bet-my-house-on-it-certain that stopping and checking all the info, maybe with an earlier cut off date for external providers (who presumably want our business) would save one administrator several hundred emails and phone calls.

In school hours there's similar - bring PE kit on Mondays, except it's actually one class one week and one the other. Just bloody tell me. I'm lucky my child is a reliable narrator but still.

Totaly · 11/09/2023 20:21

So what you want is a lively long email.

Most people don’t have the attention span for a long email.

Start of school 100 new parents. Lots want to pop in and make appointments, medical information, school dinners, milk orders, finances, governors, school supplies, to order and unpack, things to fix, thing to rest like fire alarms, arranging for x y z to come into school, arrangements for HT stuff to do,

But hey - they should prioritize your needs over everything else they need to do!

What the get is x asking ‘can you send an email for this trip’ can you send an email for Y day we’ve planned, can you send an email to remind Yx about Z?

Get a life and get your sled organised. You aren’t in charge and you have no right to tell someone how to do their job.

Do you know school staff are hard to come by?

ThrallsWife · 11/09/2023 20:22

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 19:59

Yeh based on this thread they don't seem to work and the staff seem vile and lack agency.

This makes you one of those posters.

So yes, you vilify teachers without bothering to find out who is actually responsible for communication.

LusaBatoosa · 11/09/2023 20:23

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 18:32

As I said before I don't care about the politics of whose task it is... just get it right!

Why should teachers care, though? Why should anyone be concerned with arranging things in the manner that best suits you?

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:24

@ThrallsWife I'd love to know who is responsible for the communication... except no one ever got back to me 😂

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Somaliwildass · 11/09/2023 20:28

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 19:59

Yeh based on this thread they don't seem to work and the staff seem vile and lack agency.

Schools don't work and the staff are vile? It's a shame you're relying on these people to provide what you're not for your children.

Schools only work at all due to expertise and good will of staff at the moment.

Chances are if you contact the head or ask in the office, they'll help you if they can answer your question at this stage. If not, you'll have to wait and receive it the info in due course.

fairyfluf · 11/09/2023 20:28

lanthanum · 11/09/2023 17:31

Perhaps a group of parents could put together a list of "these are the things we really want to know before the first day of school". It's probably easier for you to come up with the list than the staff - they probably don't realise that you don't all know that the year 2 classroom is always the one in the corner. Many of us just send the PE kit in at the start of term and collect it at half-term, so aren't too bothered about PE days either - although I realise that some kids use their kit out of school as well so do need to bring it backwards and forwards.

How can they not realise that? Don't they realise they aren't teaching the same kids each year?

SchoolAdminNeverGoodEnough · 11/09/2023 20:31

TheWayTheLightFalls · 11/09/2023 20:19

I agree OP. Sorry, school admin folk on here. I do think it's admin rather than teachers, but my god some of the duplication of labour and odd cul de sacs we seem to go down at my school.

EC clubs - hugely oversubscribed, so an email goes out at x time with y info about how to book. Except every term, the email doesn't go out when it's promised, and at least one key bit of info is missing - football is for KS1 not KS2, science club is on Mondays not Tuesdays, French wasn't on the timetable but exists... These are paid clubs with external providers btw, with nary a staff member in sight.

I am bet-my-house-on-it-certain that stopping and checking all the info, maybe with an earlier cut off date for external providers (who presumably want our business) would save one administrator several hundred emails and phone calls.

In school hours there's similar - bring PE kit on Mondays, except it's actually one class one week and one the other. Just bloody tell me. I'm lucky my child is a reliable narrator but still.

Do you know where admin gets the information from.........

Take a guess......

Do you know where the source of inaccuracies often stems.....

Take a guess.....

Do you know quite how much work is involved by everyone in education on starting a new academic year where, because of new staff, new students, new medical/safeguard/clubs provision issues,new IT, new govt edicts NOTHING stays the same....

I use templates and tick list.

But whilst I am waiting for x to be ready...y needs sending out....parents need it. Head needs it. Safeguarding needs it. Do I wait, just so I can use a template or just do my best.

I am waiting to find out if French is running, but in the meantime we need confirmed numbers for football otherwise we lose the booking. If there isn't enough interest in tennis we need to cancel before the 10th...or we will lose money. But I am still waiting to know if we are running French. But the French teacher has just had an operation due to a twisted testicle and now got 27 stitches his scrotum.
What do you suggest I do?

Schools have no flex. Not enough resources and not enough agency.

School admin even less.

So unless you want to do it...go join the OP

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:32

@Somaliwildass eh?

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nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:38

@SchoolAdminNeverGoodEnough

You do know that these sorts of things happen in other jobs? And yet people are still able to provide a smoother service.

I work in a field where no two days are the same and health and safety are of paramount importance (because you could literally die).

And yet we are able to work with the rhythm of the year, and have basic practices in place to ensure things run smoothly and important information is communicated well.

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SchoolAdminNeverGoodEnough · 11/09/2023 20:47

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:38

@SchoolAdminNeverGoodEnough

You do know that these sorts of things happen in other jobs? And yet people are still able to provide a smoother service.

I work in a field where no two days are the same and health and safety are of paramount importance (because you could literally die).

And yet we are able to work with the rhythm of the year, and have basic practices in place to ensure things run smoothly and important information is communicated well.

Guess what I have worked industry.
I know how things work outside of school.
I see how fucked up other sectors are.
I also know that if you have staff of say 18...having one off ill impacts everything.

But do you know what, I just roll my eyes and get on with stuff.

I don't start a thread on a public forum berating hardworking, overworked public sector staff because they are not doing the 1% of their jobs to your unrealistic standards.

Children are not a mammogram appointment. A print out with a mailmerged date and time. A template.

And school safeguarding....yep...children can "literally die" too

Oh. And have you looked at the website?

TheWayTheLightFalls · 11/09/2023 20:48

But whilst I am waiting for x to be ready...y needs sending out....parents need it. Head needs it. Safeguarding needs it. Do I wait, just so I can use a template or just do my best.

Schools have no flex. Not enough resources and not enough agency.

Yeah... this is not unique to schools. Not the complexity, not the lack of flex, not the low pay, not the zillions of moving parts, not the safeguarding and data management. I'm not hugely wedded to templates, but I really prize good communication, because it has the side effect that you don't have dozens of people emailing and calling and thereby backing things up further.

And yes, I have (with another mum) offered to step in and assist with this and we are both now involved in easing the process as far as our school will allow.

Snugglemonkey · 11/09/2023 20:48

lanthanum · 11/09/2023 17:31

Perhaps a group of parents could put together a list of "these are the things we really want to know before the first day of school". It's probably easier for you to come up with the list than the staff - they probably don't realise that you don't all know that the year 2 classroom is always the one in the corner. Many of us just send the PE kit in at the start of term and collect it at half-term, so aren't too bothered about PE days either - although I realise that some kids use their kit out of school as well so do need to bring it backwards and forwards.

Ours get sent home with their pe lit every week. Who only washes socks at half term?!

We do get very detailed information though.

Ponderingwindow · 11/09/2023 20:58

I have ASD and read the school documentation obsessively. Being hyper prepared is how I manage to function in a world built for neuro-typical people.

believe me, if I say the information is not available, it is not available. I’m the parent who contacts the school admin clarify the contradictions on the website, between emails, and between other messaging. If it’s something I have to act upon, I have to know which information is correct and there are contradictions constantly.

Important Note: I only contact to clarify information I have to act upon. I do not contact for the numerous contradictions that do not require my action, as frustrating as I find them. I know people are busy. I am too and wish I didn’t have to waste my time tracking down correct information.

Somaliwildass · 11/09/2023 21:05

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:32

@Somaliwildass eh?

Good answer. Of course you can't possibly comprehend anything I said.

You said school staff were vile. But they're looking after and educating your child, which shouldn't really be the case if they're so vile and incompetent.

Maybe you should provide all that you want the school to do (not just the list, but the actual things that will allow your child to enjoy themselves and progress, like clubs/experiences/subject knowledge/pedagogy/assessment).

Sugargliderwombat · 11/09/2023 21:12

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 18:32

As I said before I don't care about the politics of whose task it is... just get it right!

They are just trying to defend the teacher you're complaining about on day 2 for something that isn't even their job.

stargirl1701 · 11/09/2023 21:23

That's an admin thing though. Teachers are not employed to complete admin tasks. In fact, in Scotland, there are a list on admin task teachers must not do in our contract.

BellaAndDave · 11/09/2023 22:55

nappychangingbag · 11/09/2023 20:24

@ThrallsWife I'd love to know who is responsible for the communication... except no one ever got back to me 😂

I can only speak for the schools I taught in, it was normally the HT who delegated tasks on who sent what communication out. As I said before, ALL schools had a school handbook, the Class Dojo app and a lot of the time hard copy letters/newsletters in bags, PDF of the newsletters on the website, on Class Dojo and emailed. There was also links to the school handbook sent via text to parents. School calendars were sent at the start of the school year. There was always some parents who never bothered to read the communication sent then whined about not knowing…

NerrSnerr · 12/09/2023 06:55

No info on which classroom to drop child off at
If you don't know beforehand you'll find that out on the first day.

No info on PE days
If the kids keep the PE kit at school there's no need to know. If they need to wear them/ bring it in on PE days they'll tell you at some point or no kids would have the kit.

No info on school clubs
Ours change termly so a template wouldn't work at all.

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