I’ve been seeing this wonderful guy. I’ve really admired him for a long time, we met through mutual friends and he was going through a hard time in life.
He’s really been focusing on growing and self love and working hard to be the best person he can be. He said in the past he has been toxic but is trying all the time to be better. He also has a 4 year old daughter.
He’s told me about his relationship with her mother. He said they both hurt each other a lot. They couldn’t work it out and he said for once he ended it and chose himself. Then he met me. Our relationship is really good except i feel he’s finding it hard to completely let her go.
He had a conversation with her on his Ipad where he said he will always want the best for her, he will forever have her back and will always support her. At first I thought this was okay, its good to co parent and be amicable but i can’t shake this feeling that he has feelings for her. He said she always said she loves him because he’s the father of her child, whereas he loved her separately from their child.