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To think celebrity worship is weird?

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Doesyourkidhaveacold · 10/09/2023 20:17

Is it just me, or is the whole worship of celebrities really bizarre? I think appreciating someone’s talent is one thing and I have people I like to watch/listen to, but I find the extremes that people go to really bizarre, spending hours standing around hoping for a glimpse of them, spending hundreds on tickets to go and see them, following their every move and being interested in who they’re dating, obsessing over what they look like and buying everything they make/endorse. I was reading something earlier about best and worst celebrity encounters and it’s like these people have to do the bare minimum. One person raves about Adam Sandler because ‘he said please and thank you to everyone’. Okay, shouldn’t everyone as standard? It’s odd how we heroworship people because they’re born with a good voice or the ability to pretend to be someone else, or kick a football. This isn’t one of those ‘nurses should be paid the same as footballers’ things, I just find it bozarre that we out these people on such high pedestals? I don’t think any famous person is ‘better’ than me and I wouldn’t line up to meet a single one. I respect what they create, but anything more I find odd. Why do we give these people so much within society? They’re just people at the end of the day? I saw a video the other day of a woman saying she was angry that people were at a Taylor Swift concert who weren’t singing along as they didn’t deserve a ticket. Surely this thought process is bonkers? Yet so many people hold celebrity’s on such high pedastals and treat them as though they’re more important people than anyone else. I find it all so odd?! All the fawning and things like award ceremonies for being on tv and such is just so…strange. Am I reasonable or just a bit of a sour face?

And no, I’m not jealous, I have no desire to be famous or go to the Ivy or whatever. And yes, I include people sleeping on the streets for days to see the royals in this.

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UnctuousUnicorns · 11/09/2023 21:25

heatherheathe · 11/09/2023 18:33

What??? Yours is the odd post, of course people scream at gigs/concerts. There are a million examples on youtube but just to start you off, listen to the first 30 secs of

or or (spanning a range of ages/genres)

Well, obviously I'm not going to watch those videos all the way through, but skimming through, I hear a few squeals for HS, but as for RS and Muse, I think you're confusing enthusiastic whooping, cheering, whistling etc. with hysterical, uncontrolled screaming and screeching a la Beatle/Bros mania, something that I don't hear here.

Of course if you have several hundred girls and women cheering and whooping, it's going to sound like that, simply because, higher pitched voices. And yes, I freely and enthusiastically clap, cheer and whoop myself at gigs, when the band or singer first come on stage, after each song, and at the end, along with stomping feet when clamouring for encores. It would be rude not to! 😅 But I'm certainly not "screaming", and definitely not during the songs, God forbid.

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 12/09/2023 13:08

This just popped up on my FB feed and I agree.
Even I follow these rules at my completely naf shows!

To think celebrity worship is weird?
Georgeandzippyzoo · 12/09/2023 13:14

megacat · 10/09/2023 20:26

It's escapism? People have different interests?

I've spent good money on concerts this year and the memories and the feeling of excitement will stay with me forever. Worth every penny.

I think that's different. I love concerts and have seen a range of artists over time . Great experiences that I will always remember, great memories....BUT I don't live through these people . I don't read upon them and i dont want to know what they're wearing, who they're dating, which produvts they use etc.

UnctuousUnicorns · 12/09/2023 13:31

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 12/09/2023 13:08

This just popped up on my FB feed and I agree.
Even I follow these rules at my completely naf shows!

Oh fuck yes, I read this on Twitter. All I can say is good luck to that lass, because the number of people out there who think that they're perfectly entitled to chat during gigs is mind boggling. My singer with my favourite band does solo gigs, just himself with mike, acoustic guitar and amp, like the woman who posted that guide. Not a band with a big PA system or anything like that.

I've both watched videos on YouTube and attended gigs where he's had to stop mid song and confront some twats who were talking throughout. Of course they never just look shamefaced and mumble an apology, oh no, they argue back, as if somehow the singer is the one with the problem for objecting to them gassing during his performance. Unbelievable, or at least it would be, if I hadn't seen it for myself. Rude, ignorant, selfish arses.

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 12/09/2023 14:08

I absolutely do not talk, I sing, I cheer, I clap, there may be an occasional squeal If appropriate, but I'm v well behaved, honest.
Different gigs have different rules too, if it's a quiet sort of just listening one, then obvs I do that, if it's Harry, it's quite different.
I don't piss anyone off, and given my age, and some of the shows I go to, I'm actually always the one with extra water/cereal bars/a spare phone charger for the teenagers!

Coffeaddict · 12/09/2023 14:12

I don't get it. I was in my early teens when big brother/ reality tv became a thing. One of the girls in my class would repeatly say she wanted to be famous, not for anything in particular just to be famous. To me that was my idea of hell. People in your face with camera when you just want to grab a coffee/ chat with friends.

God forbid you had a drunken night out and did something stupid ( which I did plenty of in my youth) it would be splashed all over the newspapers. I hated the idea. Also don't get hero worship, never really have

UnctuousUnicorns · 12/09/2023 14:16

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 12/09/2023 14:08

I absolutely do not talk, I sing, I cheer, I clap, there may be an occasional squeal If appropriate, but I'm v well behaved, honest.
Different gigs have different rules too, if it's a quiet sort of just listening one, then obvs I do that, if it's Harry, it's quite different.
I don't piss anyone off, and given my age, and some of the shows I go to, I'm actually always the one with extra water/cereal bars/a spare phone charger for the teenagers!

👍You sound like a model gig attendee. 🙂 If only absolutely everyone were like that! 🙏

UnctuousUnicorns · 12/09/2023 14:24

"Different gigs have different rules too, if it's a quiet sort of just listening one, then obvs I do that, if it's Harry, it's quite different"

Oh yes, the singer I'm referring to encourages us all to sing along at his gigs, which we do, with gusto. Mind, hearing some of the out of tune contributions, sometimes I wonder if that's such a good idea...! 🤔 😅 But, hey, I'd sooner people participate enthusiastically at gigs, than chat to their mate about their holiday, and I'm pretty sure he does, too.

Wellthatsjustridiculous · 12/09/2023 14:30

Haven't read all the replies but I totally agree op.

I've always felt this way. Back when I was at school and it was all boy bands like Take That, Boyzone, Backstreet Boys. I didn't mind them and sure I liked a lot of the music, might have fancied a band member. But I could never understand all the screaming and having Take That bag, pencil case, t-shirt. I'd be thinking, they're just people.

But I suppose it depends if something or someone has really touched your life in some way. I adore the show friends, and I'd probably love to see Jennifer Aniston in the flesh. I wouldn't queue for hours or go out of my way or scream and cry.

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 12/09/2023 14:35

UnctuousUnicorns · 12/09/2023 14:24

"Different gigs have different rules too, if it's a quiet sort of just listening one, then obvs I do that, if it's Harry, it's quite different"

Oh yes, the singer I'm referring to encourages us all to sing along at his gigs, which we do, with gusto. Mind, hearing some of the out of tune contributions, sometimes I wonder if that's such a good idea...! 🤔 😅 But, hey, I'd sooner people participate enthusiastically at gigs, than chat to their mate about their holiday, and I'm pretty sure he does, too.

Most of mine encourage singing too, I have to stop briefly when grabbing a quick video as no one needs to hear my voice!
I'm seeing Zak Abel this year, I know nothing about him, no idea what sort of gig it'll be, but I'll follow whatever the done thing is.

autienotnaughty · 12/09/2023 15:14

Agree I like some peoples music,films, books, stand up etc. I can admire talent wether there's fame or not. I also dislike it when people are praised for doing what should be the bare minimum

LlynTegid · 12/09/2023 15:16

What I object to is refusing to see a bad side in someone if there is one. Or was one when the person was younger.

TastesLikeStrawberriesOnASummerEvening · 12/09/2023 17:23

He's best friends with James Corden ffs!
Yes, I see it, it baffles me.
I still got up at stupid o'clock to watch his last show as Harry was on it.
I believe JC is a wanker.

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