So please let me know what u guys think. So ive been a single mum to ds5 since he was 1. Struggled as most do to get by but a couple of months ago i was offered an amazing job opportunity where im now earning more than the average salary and have more money than ive ever known and feel so happy i can give my child all he needs and go on days out etc. However my issue is, now im workinh a full time intense job, finishing at 7pm mon-fri, doing the school runs, bath time cooking etc im struggling to maintain the house. I keep the house neat and tidy but find it hard to have time to do deep cleans. So now i have the extra cash i thought ill have a cleaner in once every week or two to do the deep cleans for me. My mum got made redundant during covid and has struggled to find a job since so suggested if she wanted to clean for me and ill pay her. My dad kicked off saying i need to stop being lazy and so it myself but mum was more than happy to accept. Im going to pay for a cleaner regardless. Am i being unreasonable for asking my mum to do it and giving her the money so she can enjoy a few treats or should i just hire a random cleaner and tell my dad im doing it all myself?