OK, lots to unpick here @MigraineMarnie
I'm a GP, I have ADHD, and so do my kids, so I get it from both points of view. Here's my thoughts:
- NHS ADHD provision is woefully inadequate and embarrassing
- That puts us as GPs under huge pressure to prescribe on the basis of a private assessment
- Some private ADHD clinics use reputable, experienced consultants who have worked or do work in NHS psychiatry and are excellent
- some will send out a diagnosis and the patient have never even seen a doctor, let alone a psychiatrist - maybe just a nurse and a pharmacist following a tick box approach
- ADHD meds are shared care meaning that the GP prescribes, but you have to be under the care of a consultant for life. They are also legally controlled drugs, which is significant. They have potential for abuse, and a street value.
- The person who signs the script carries 100% of the medicolegal liability
So, bearing all of this in mind, as a practice we have a policy that we will consider sharing care with a private psychiatrist, but each case will be done individually. We would look for the psychiatrist to be based in the UK, on the specialist register, ideally to work or have worked in a substantive NHS post, for the assessment to use reputable tools, for the prescribing to be in line with guidelines, and for private reviews to continue at least annually. We are happy to refer on the NHS and for the private reviews to stop when the NHS reviews stop. We will only take over prescribing when the dose is stable.
Some practices won't share care with the private sector under any circumstances, as they feel that the risk of the patient stopping paying, and then the practice is left sharing care with no-one, is too great. I have sympathy for this view. It also takes up huge resources of time, which we don't have.
So I'm afraid I wouldn't prescribe for you, because your consultant is abroad, I have no way of assessing how reputable they are, and your child won't continue to see them.
The costs you quoted are reasonable and you can expect to need to get the meds privately for probably about 6m (for comparison, the cost of a month of equasym is maybe £80 - £150 depending on the dose) if your GP is willing to share care after that, or to pay privately for them until the NHS takes over.
Sorry, it's rubbish. But it's not our fault that it's rubbish and we hate working in a broken system.