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Immunisation appointments

31 replies

Custardcreamking · 04/09/2023 10:37

I have a small child who is due the next round of immunisations. I had an appointment sent to me on a day that I cannot make. I work 5 days a week, 4 weekdays and one day at the weekend so have one fixed day off in the normal working week in which to get all of the life admin / chores done.

My drs doesn’t do the immunisations through their nurses, it has to be a health visitor. The health visitors only do immunisations in clinics and dispite living in a big city and being willing to travel they cannot fit me into any clinics on my day off, ever. ‘Take a day off work’ they suggest. I only get the bare minimum holiday and it’s all allocated until the end of the year.

And I am a bit pissed off about the suggestion that I take a full day off work to get my child immunised. It seems to me like so much in this country that nothing has changed from the 1970s when families survived on a single income and the mum stayed home. Life’s not like that these days, and I’d expect the nhs to understand that and be a bit flexible in understanding that I cannot be in a certain place at a certain time.

We’ve hit an impasse and my child isn’t getting immunised (until I calm down and gather the energy to try to address the situation once more). AIBU to expect the NHS to be a bit more flexible?

OP posts:
Hufflepods · 04/09/2023 12:25

So you can take the day off and take DC anyway but you just don't really want to as you will have to make the time up after christmas?
Why can't you reprioritise the annual leave you've "already allocated"?

CurlewKate · 04/09/2023 12:31

Is the baby's father around?

JenniferBarkley · 04/09/2023 12:42

Custardcreamking · 04/09/2023 12:15

I could take a day off, but that would mean I’d have to work a day in between Christmas and new year as I have minimal leave which is just quite depressing. The health visitors in this city have clinics on my day off but there are no appointments available in the coming months and they haven’t timetabled beyond that, so I could just try to remember to call them back every three months.

Completely OT, but do you not have some days to play with for illness? Hard when you're just back from maternity leave though I know.

Clefable · 04/09/2023 12:46

Is there no flexibility in your work at all? How long will it take? Could you use your lunch break for example?

gamerchick · 04/09/2023 12:52

Ask dad to do it. I wouldn't want to move a days AL either.

Sirzy · 04/09/2023 14:06

Without being harsh if she gets poorly due to lack of vaccine then you will end up having to miss a lot more than a few hours of work!

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