I'm noticing that holiday accommodation seems to get more expensive and less good, with more restrictions every time we go these days.
We did a driving tour round Europe this year, so stayed in a variety of places: budget chain hotel, youth hostel, private hotel, chalet, eurocamp. Of all of them, by far the nicest was the youth hostel (in Germany), followed by Travelodge (UK),and then Eurocamp (Switzerland). The private hotel had seen better days and the chalet was ridiculously restrictive on cleaning, like the OPs situation. The private hotel and chalet were the most expensive!
Later in the summer we also stayed in a youth hostel in the Yorkshire dales, and that was also lovely - had to strip beds,and if we used the kitchen, clean up after ourselves (we only used it to make cups of tea anyway), no cleaning before checkout, no cleaning of our room.
The only other accommodation that is good, is on cruises, which is essentially a floating hotel.
Pretty much every privately owned accommodation (airBnB etc) has been a massive let down for one reason or another.