More of a what will I do and less of an AIBU but I'm scared of him so please read.
We're in Ireland so fees are e3k , accom is e6 k and he's refusing to contribute. We're only separated.we agreed to share education, medical and dental but he hasn't paid any of these . He contributes the equivalent of e50 per week per child , inconsistently.
He says it's only an arts degree, she probably won't be able for it and it's a waste of money. She had severe school refusal and anxiety since he leftthree years ago, out of the blue.
She got a great leaving cert considering her attendance was 20% for the three years and at one stage we didn't thinks he would sit the exams.
I want to give her every opportunity and have nearly been broken by the last few years myself. What will I do?
Would it be awful to get my solicitor to expediate the divorce . He'll go nuts .