We live in a market town. In one of the cobbled squares there is a fairly newish, metal artistic statue thing (about 5 ft tall). There are lots of bars/ restaurants around the courtyard.
Today we were sitting in a bar at lunchtime overlooking the square and watched a family with an 8 or 9 year old boy waiting around while he climbed all over the statue, even to the point where he was sitting on the head.
I couldn't quite believe it. They looked like normal, law-abiding folk, but they just obviously seemed to think this was OK? I noticed a few other people in the bar watching them and tutting, so obviously I wasn't the only one who noticed.
Just to be clear, this isn't a big concrete thing, it's actually an artistically designed thing, with a plaque about the artist etc, and could presumably be damaged by kids being rough with it.
I wouldn't dream of letting my children do this, not least because there's one of the best parks in the area two minutes walk away.
If it had been a 3 or 4 year old exploring, perhaps I'd understand, but a 9 year old? He should know better surely?