Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To be annoyed that parents let their children use a statue in our town as a climbing frame?

44 replies

Gameboy · 02/03/2008 16:57

We live in a market town. In one of the cobbled squares there is a fairly newish, metal artistic statue thing (about 5 ft tall). There are lots of bars/ restaurants around the courtyard.

Today we were sitting in a bar at lunchtime overlooking the square and watched a family with an 8 or 9 year old boy waiting around while he climbed all over the statue, even to the point where he was sitting on the head.

I couldn't quite believe it. They looked like normal, law-abiding folk, but they just obviously seemed to think this was OK? I noticed a few other people in the bar watching them and tutting, so obviously I wasn't the only one who noticed.

Just to be clear, this isn't a big concrete thing, it's actually an artistically designed thing, with a plaque about the artist etc, and could presumably be damaged by kids being rough with it.

I wouldn't dream of letting my children do this, not least because there's one of the best parks in the area two minutes walk away.

If it had been a 3 or 4 year old exploring, perhaps I'd understand, but a 9 year old? He should know better surely?

OP posts:
WideWebWitch · 02/03/2008 16:59

Yes, should know better and I wouldn't let mine do this. I can't imagine that they would do it without asking me tbh and if they asked I'd say no. So this does seem odd. Are there signs sayniog "don't climb on it"? Not that people should assume that just if there aren;t signs then you can climb but ykwim.

SheikYerbouti · 02/03/2008 17:00

I used to snog The Wife of Bath whilst waiting for taxis in my student days, usually aftyer some filth and onions from a delightful "mobile Caterer" called My Van

Twiglett · 02/03/2008 17:01

yer such a lady sheik

Carmenere · 02/03/2008 17:02

YANBU but public art is built to withstand this type of abuse so it is unlikely to be damaged.

SheikYerbouti · 02/03/2008 17:02

I know, Twiggers. Classy to the core, me.

WideWebWitch · 02/03/2008 17:03

where's the Wife Of Bath statue then? Don't remember if from Bath but is it somewhere Chaucer ish?

SheikYerbouti · 02/03/2008 17:06

By the Abbey, opposite the Empire (Orange Grove)

It might not be called that though, but that's what we used to call it

WideWebWitch · 02/03/2008 17:07

Oh ok, not that I would necessarily have noticed it when I lived in Bath, it was a while ago now

SheikYerbouti · 02/03/2008 17:10

It's a fountain, I think.

I have only ever really looked at it pissed and at 3am. I never go to that end of town now really

BreeVanDerCampLGJ · 02/03/2008 17:13

And the Lion and Lamb lay down together.This is not a concrete thing, but it gets a repaint every few years, the children of the town love it.

hatrick · 02/03/2008 17:19

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

Gameboy · 02/03/2008 17:36

Hmm - not as sturdy as that Bree. But even if it's unlikely to get broken, surely that's not the point? That's not what it's there for?

at climbing on the Henry Moore sculptures....

I think this is just one of those things which seems 'harmless' enough, but sends the wrong messages right from an early age... that same boy will probably be the one who will be standing in the toddler swings and breaking them in a few years time

I know children love to clamber on these sorts of statures, but I think they should be discouraged from doing so? What happens when you take them to a proper gallery, are they allowed to climb on all the pieces of art?

OP posts:
hatrick · 02/03/2008 17:39

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

hercules1 · 02/03/2008 17:39

I wouldnt let mine do it but I dont think a child climbing over a statue obviously able to withstand it is the same as climbing over art in an exhibition.

hatrick · 02/03/2008 17:55

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn

Saturn74 · 02/03/2008 18:00

I accompanied DS1's school on a trip to the Yorkshire Sculpture Park, and was dismayed when the Head Teacher told all the children not to touch any of the sculptures.

He told the children that they were representing their school, and he didn't want anyone thinking that they didn't know how to behave.

I wouldn't let my children climb on a statue, but sculptures are such tactile things that it is a shame that the children can't feel them.

eeewahwoowah · 02/03/2008 18:01

If the piece in question is robust enough then so what if kids climb on it. Art in the public realm is usually constructed with an eye on the fact that it might take a bashing.

I am all for climbing on public art. It would be a poor do if we stopped people climbing on the lions' in Trafalgar Square of a new years eve.

eeewahwoowah · 02/03/2008 18:03

also the the Yorkshire Sculpture Park (great day out I urge you all to go) is choc full of huge Henry Moore and Anthony Caro sculptures which people are allowed to clamber all over.

PeachesMcLean · 02/03/2008 18:06

If it's outdoors, it'll be built to withstand such behaviour. i like the idea of being able to climb on public art - get a real sense of the shape and texture of something that way. May have to try it myself sometime...

RahRahRachel · 02/03/2008 18:07

As long as they're not going to break it then where's the harm?

AitchTwoOh · 02/03/2008 18:45

i'm with peaches, i think there's something lovely about being able to experience public art in such a tangible way. you never know, by the time they're sixteen they could be sculptors and artists themselves... i'd most definitely let dd clamber over something if i thought she wasn't going to damage it. unless it was a henry moore in which case i could live with the guilt.

suedonim · 02/03/2008 18:48

There's a statue in Perth of the eponymous Fair Maid, which has her sitting on a bench. She regularly has lushes draped over her, covering her in goodness-knows-what but she's surviving the years very well. And the statue of Queen Victoria in Aberdeen oftimes is crowned with a traffic cone, which makes me chortle when I see it. I wouldn't let my 8yo climb on a public statue but I don't think it actually causes harm.

suedonim · 02/03/2008 18:51

And fwiw, Stonehenge is now just plain boring since they banned folks from hugging the rocks.

branflake81 · 04/03/2008 12:17

Hmmm..tough call. I think that they should be encouraged to touch it but not sure about clambering purely because it might spoil it. I used to live in Paris and everyone climbs on the statues there. Even the adults!

TheFallenMadonna · 04/03/2008 12:21

I've been involved in commissioning a piece fo public art and all of the artists spoke about how they encouraged 'exploration' of their work. If it is modern it is likely to have been designed with this in mind.

Swipe left for the next trending thread