So, after everything bad I'd read on here, I was pretty alarmed when told this medication would give me a menopause with double symptoms, and was well and truly preparing to meet my doom.
But 6 months in and I'm loving it! Freedom! energy! drive!
( and a few hot flushes, but nothing major)
and best of all, I love that I don't feel obliged to be nice and kind to everyone all the time - I wouldn't be unkind, of course, but I have lost that sense of obligation to put myself last- no wonder menopausal women have a reputation for being "difficult" if all these women who have spent a life time being doormats suddenly rebel in middle age!
It is a wonderful rebellion and I'm loving it.
AIBU to tell you there is nothing to fear from this stage of life. For me, it has so far been the best yet.