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Still bleeding from my bum, life right now is not so fun

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bleedingbum · 30/08/2023 20:10

Back in July I posted about heavy rectal bleeding and stomach pain, and that I have Crohn’s disease and previous bowel surgery history.

everyone was very kind and offered really helpful advice.

i ended up having a couple of hospital stays, bloods that’s showed inflammation and high white blood cells and told I was in a flare.

flexisigmoidoscopy showed my rectum was fine so they said bleeding must come from higher up, I was discharged as they said nothing more they can do and referred me to another hospital for a pill camera in my small intestine (I have no large intestine).

i have received no letter with an appointment as of yet, and have been told I’d get call backs when trying to get through to the reception there.

anyway my doctor called after the hospital to say she wanted me to have more bloods so I did, and she said for three months my inflammation levels have been climbing, but said to wait for this appointment

for the past three weeks I’ve been feeling exhausted, and on and off bleeding but have just got used to it. The thing is I’m so tired that even standing for too long I need to sit down and I’m oversleeping a lot of the time. I’ve been putting this down to the fact I’m currently overweight and have been eating quite stodgy because I just cannot deal with fruit and veg at the moment or im on the toilet - though jacket potato with coleslaw I can handle so that’s basically been my go to.

today I’ve been to the toilet three times and each time has been 30 mins - hour of just nonstop.

tonight I’ve just spent 60 minutes on the toilet, noticed blood clots and looked in and the toilet water looked like thick, dark red blood. It was no longer even that thin water texture it just looked thick. My stomach and back feel sore so I’m just resting on the sofa.

i don’t know what to do - I don’t have an IBD team still even though I’ve been referred, no direct contact at either hospital, GP is closed, and I feel it’s pointless going to hospital when they’ve already discharged me and said to wait for the appointment because there’s nothing more I can do. Wanting to avoid it as much as possible too because I have a little one who is autistic and honestly being in last time has put him
right out of sorts ever since it’s given him massive separation anxiety.

i have nowhere else to turn and I know this isn’t a medical forum but would appreciate any advice at all or experience from anyone who’s been in the same boat because I’m just at a total loss of what I can actually do!

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KnowledgeableMomma · 30/08/2023 20:17

Definitely go to the hospital. If you are bleeding enough to cause the fatigue, you may need blood transfusions. Best case scenario-they investigate and find something helpful. Worst case-they say you are fine for now and discharge you (which I don't think will happen). No one should be bleeding for 60 minutes. Go back to the hospital, OP.

bleedingbum · 30/08/2023 20:40

@KnowledgeableMomma thank you, just so worried about my son and have a feeling they’ll keep me in only to discharge a day later & say wait for the letter!

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Parentingmishaps · 30/08/2023 20:43

You get to A&E and get medical advice.

Hufflemuff · 30/08/2023 20:48

Firstly - Have a blood test to determine if you have lost enough blood for an iron infusion. It helps SOOO much with fatigue.

Questions if you please:

  1. Can I please ask why they think you have Chrons instead of Ulcerative Colitis? UC is more linked with bleeding. In Chrons bleeding is not so common.

  2. Did you have a full colonoscopy too? Why did they just did a flexisig?

  3. Did you have a CT scan which showed patchy inflammation? Patchy inflammation is more indicative of Chrons, UC is all in the large colon. I'm thinking that could be my awnser to question 2.

  4. What meds are you on??

Gingerkittykat · 30/08/2023 20:53

You need to go to A and E, you can't keep bleeding like that.

KnowledgeableMomma · 30/08/2023 21:01

You've got to be in good health to be fully there for your awesome son. Go to the hospital, it is definitely the best thing right now!

bleedingbum · 30/08/2023 21:09

@Hufflemuff I’ve had my colon removed, that’s when they thought it was UC. Now they’re saying crohn’s

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bleedingbum · 30/08/2023 22:07

I’ve come to A&E so busy with 5 hour wait

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Holidaystress11 · 30/08/2023 22:11

Good luck Op

Polkadotfleece · 30/08/2023 22:12

Fingers crossed you get seen sooner than that. Take care. Have some unmumsnetty hugs (gentle)

OpheliaPlum · 30/08/2023 22:12

Just wanted to say I’m sorry you’re going through this pain, worry and exhaustion. You’ve made the right call. You have to put your health first. Best of luck tonight.

adriftabroad · 30/08/2023 22:17

Crikey. Well done for getting to hospital.
Sending positive thoughts. 😘

caringcarer · 30/08/2023 22:18

Even though there is a long weight it's best to be at the hospital. I know it must be gross but did you take a photo of toilet bowl before flushing? If not if you need to go again I'd do that so they can see full extent of the problem. I hope they treat you soon.

caringcarer · 30/08/2023 22:18

Wait

TurkeyHolidayPlanning · 30/08/2023 22:20

I remember your last thread. I'm so sorry you are still dealing with this. I hope A&are are more helpful

RedDoughnut · 31/08/2023 14:09

@bleedingbum how did you get on at A and E?

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