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Women should be prevented from drug taking in pregnancy

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Caterpillarsleftfoot · 29/08/2023 13:51

I have just come back from a holiday with my nephew's who were exposed to drugs in utero (adopted). I'm also a school teacher who has taught drug and alcohol exposed children.

Seeing the challenges they face made me think why on earth it is allowed.

If you hurt your child every day when they are 6 months, 2 years, 5 years old then they are removed from your care. Why are you allowed to hurt an unborn baby? If a woman is known to take drugs or daily alcohol, then why is she not taken into a protective custody in a hospital/ secure unit for the remainder of the pregnancy to prevent her harming the child?

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BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 09:23

Stopping a baby from suffering a preventable illness is not eugenics.

Eugenics would be killing all people with FAS or terminating babies suspected of FAS. Trying to stop women drinking in pregnancy is not eugenics

CaptainMyCaptain · 31/08/2023 09:26

BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 09:09

Wanting to stop a child developing a preventable illness will never be eugenics however you frame it, though.

Of course it is.

Insommmmnia · 31/08/2023 09:30

BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 09:23

Stopping a baby from suffering a preventable illness is not eugenics.

Eugenics would be killing all people with FAS or terminating babies suspected of FAS. Trying to stop women drinking in pregnancy is not eugenics

Eugenics is not killing people

Eugenics is stopping a section of society from having babies

So no, killing people with FAS is no eugenics. Stopping people with FAS from having babies would be eugenics for example

Poudretteite · 31/08/2023 09:31

Regardless of anything else it's just not practically possible.
Someone makes a referral and then the woman is locked up in a 'unit' for 9 months?
Where will the funding come from for all these units - which will be expensive due to specialised population, all the staff, loss of earnings, childcare/accommodation for other children. Do older children get placed in care, and what are the knock-on psychological effects on the family, and effects of further overstretching the care system.

Thementalloadisreal · 31/08/2023 09:35

Insommmmnia · 29/08/2023 20:15

No one wants or is advocating for pregnant women shooting heroin in their veins

But how do you police it this? That's when the stripping of human rights comes in. Bearing in mind the idea includes the forced imprisonment of women who have a drink during pregnancy

Do you want to provide a negative pregnancy test before you buy alcohol from the age of 18 to at least 50?

Exactly this. How do you police it and where do you draw the line? Is some spotty Saturday boy in Tesco allowed to deny a pregnant woman a bottle of wine? Because “what if”…

Brefugee · 31/08/2023 09:35

I am genuinely so shocked that people are so pro women

Shocking isn't it. Women are people too.

Thementalloadisreal · 31/08/2023 09:38

Also it puts the burden (or opportunity) on people to police pregnant people who are not qualified to do so.

Even if a midwife or doctor advises don’t do X or do Y, it is just advice. No one can make or prevent a woman, pregnant or otherwise from doing what they want or need.

When breastfeeding my newborn I was denied an over the counter painkiller from my local pharmacy despite being advised by two midwives that I needed it.
A minor example, but if you start allowing lay people to regulate others’ bodies and choices then you are removing agency from the woman herself.

Insommmmnia · 31/08/2023 09:41

Thementalloadisreal · 31/08/2023 09:35

Exactly this. How do you police it and where do you draw the line? Is some spotty Saturday boy in Tesco allowed to deny a pregnant woman a bottle of wine? Because “what if”…

Tbh what's being suggested is a Saturday boy in tesco is allowed to deny any women under the age of say 50 because "what if"

Because the new rights of the foetus will overwrite the rights of any pregnant and "has the potential to be pregnant women"

SleepingStandingUp · 31/08/2023 09:45

I understand your emotions over this, esp when you can see the consequences in your family.

However it is simply untenable.
People don't report actual children being abused. They aren't going to be reporting Gina who's in the pub every Saturday. Most people have no idea what other people take.

And by the time you've had someone reported, investigated, monitored and then finally action taken, any damage would be largely done.

You've clearly got limited scope on your "pro-choice" with little understanding of how long it can take after the 20 week scan to have a serious condition identified and have time to decide what to do

CaptainMyCaptain · 31/08/2023 09:47

The section on Genetic Engineering is the most relevant part.

TripleDaisySummer · 31/08/2023 09:48

So you want women to be incarcerated for drinking alcohol, something that's currently legal. But just women and just women of childbearing age?

https://www.newsweek.com/woman-jailed-endangering-fetus-wasnt-pregnant-1761547

It's not hard to see disgruntled ex or family members using this against women of child bearing ages.

Julia Tutwiler Correctional Facility in Alabama

A woman was jailed for "endangering" her fetus — she wasn't even pregnant

"It's traumatizing, it's not something that somebody gets over," said Stacey Freeman's attorney Martin Weinberg.

https://www.newsweek.com/woman-jailed-endangering-fetus-wasnt-pregnant-1761547

notlucreziaborgia · 31/08/2023 09:49

BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 09:23

Stopping a baby from suffering a preventable illness is not eugenics.

Eugenics would be killing all people with FAS or terminating babies suspected of FAS. Trying to stop women drinking in pregnancy is not eugenics

Only if you wholly define eugenics as what the Nazis did. There’s a bit more to it than that.

TripleDaisySummer · 31/08/2023 09:53

When breastfeeding my newborn I was denied an over the counter painkiller from my local pharmacy despite being advised by two midwives that I needed it.

I was denied gaviscon for heart burn in pg by some chemists - but yes getting treatment while bf for anything was really hard and had more than one suggestion by HCP I stop (which for something serious I would have) even when there often was a possible safe treatment.

category12 · 31/08/2023 09:57

TripleDaisySummer · 31/08/2023 09:48

So you want women to be incarcerated for drinking alcohol, something that's currently legal. But just women and just women of childbearing age?

https://www.newsweek.com/woman-jailed-endangering-fetus-wasnt-pregnant-1761547

It's not hard to see disgruntled ex or family members using this against women of child bearing ages.

Yeah, this would start creating the framework for "foetal personhood" that would see women stripped of reproductive rights and open us to this kind of bullshit.

People who are denying that this type of enforced protection of the foetus' health in utero has anything to do with abortion rights are deluding themselves.

BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 10:23

Only if you wholly define eugenics as what the Nazis did. There’s a bit more to it than that.

What else do you think is eugenics @notlucreziaborgia? Vaccines, modern healthcare, TFMR? Not everything is eugenics.

Wanting to prevent FAS is not and never will be eugenicsConfused

As I said, terminating FAS babies for being FAS babies is eugenics. Killing FAS sufferers is eugenics.

Not wanting pregnant women to inflict FAS on a fetus is not eugenics. You don't need to misuse words like that to prove whatever point you want to make (I'm not even sure what point it is).

BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 10:24

BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 10:23

Only if you wholly define eugenics as what the Nazis did. There’s a bit more to it than that.

What else do you think is eugenics @notlucreziaborgia? Vaccines, modern healthcare, TFMR? Not everything is eugenics.

Wanting to prevent FAS is not and never will be eugenicsConfused

As I said, terminating FAS babies for being FAS babies is eugenics. Killing FAS sufferers is eugenics.

Not wanting pregnant women to inflict FAS on a fetus is not eugenics. You don't need to misuse words like that to prove whatever point you want to make (I'm not even sure what point it is).

Only if you wholly define eugenics as what the Nazis did. There’s a bit more to it than that.

Should be in bold

Brefugee · 31/08/2023 10:42

SouthLondonMum22 · 29/08/2023 16:37

The alternative is living in a society where pregnant women are nothing but incubators and a foetus has more rights than them.

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But it wouldn't just be pregnant women. It would be any women who were able to be pregnant. So between, say, ages 10 and 50.

Because we already know that due to overzealous application of the "do they look 25" thing (which in itself is partly ridiculous) people are sometimes stopped from buying wine if they have a child with them. Imagine if you rocked up with a trolley with some wine in it, because you were planning a surprise party for your husband's birthday and the overzealous cashier called security? and you protested a bit too loud, maybe you're from a minority group, and the next thing you're being carted off in handcuffs?

Frankly? this sounds like an undergraduate ethics essay that someone forgot to write and is getting us to write it for them.

Brefugee · 31/08/2023 10:50

minipie · 29/08/2023 17:43

I would be interested people’s thoughts on the prevention approaches I mentioned upthread eg

  • pay drug taking women to have the injection/implant
  • offer drug taking women rehab treatment on condition of having the injection/implant
  • if a woman has already had one or more drug damaged children, and is still using, enforce the injection/implant (this is obviously the most controversial)

What do you think?

none of it is ethical.

PP mentioned upthread that they read that in the US drug taking pregnant women who had been incarcerated had better outcomes than those not in prison. For sure they did. 100% to be guaranteed: because they received actual treatment. Plenty of other women in the US, including those working but not getting insurance - let alone those taking drugs etc - don't get any bloody treatment.

Where we should be focussing our efforts is prevention (education education education) and support (for those who do fall through the cracks) but not judgement. And not prison. (unless they commit an actual crime - which some drug-taking is, of course, but their punishment/sentence shouldn't be influenced by their pregnancy)

Brefugee · 31/08/2023 11:06

applesandmares · 29/08/2023 20:40

There's some interesting case law around mothers autonomy vs foetus surrounding instances in labour where a woman with a phobia of needles was refusing a needle (such refusal would result in a stillbirth) and her autonomy was overridden to ensure a healthy birth (I.e best interests of unborn child outweighed woman's autonomy). What do the staunch autonomy first women think of this?

If I remember rightly they used some kind of capacity argument to get round it - woman's phobia was irrational and caused her to temporarily lose capacity meaning she couldn't consent or refuse the intervention.

not sure why the needle was actually required. In that case, someone with an actual recorded phobia should have discussions with their health-care team and my best guess would be an ECS with general anasthetic (possible?) (I have no idea how anything like this works)

not waiting until the last possible minute then forcing her to do something that could possibly give her PTSD. I would be interesting to see what happened after this event, tbh.

category12 · 31/08/2023 12:52

Brefugee · 31/08/2023 11:06

not sure why the needle was actually required. In that case, someone with an actual recorded phobia should have discussions with their health-care team and my best guess would be an ECS with general anasthetic (possible?) (I have no idea how anything like this works)

not waiting until the last possible minute then forcing her to do something that could possibly give her PTSD. I would be interesting to see what happened after this event, tbh.

Yeah, I'd be interested where this story actually comes from.

cheeseandcrackers89 · 31/08/2023 13:55

BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 09:23

Stopping a baby from suffering a preventable illness is not eugenics.

Eugenics would be killing all people with FAS or terminating babies suspected of FAS. Trying to stop women drinking in pregnancy is not eugenics

Exactly. With the absurd logic that is being spoken on here, could you not argue that women taking folic acid during pregnancy to prevent spina bifida is eugenics?

category12 · 31/08/2023 13:57

We don't force women to take folic acid. It's only advice. Advice is fine. Trying to enforce behaviour is not fine.

BasicBinaryBitch · 31/08/2023 14:04

Whether it's fine or not to intervene is a complex issue. What we can say is: it's not eugenics to not want babies to be inflicted with FAS.

We can have every sympathy with the mother, and hopefully, all of us agree that that is not a a good outcome for a child.

category12 · 31/08/2023 14:09

Of course FAS is a bad outcome - but the state can't start dictating to half the population what they put into their bodies.

I find it very odd that women would be in favour of this - so very much a case of turkeys voting for Christmas - and the othering of women with addictions.

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