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Would you say this was harassment or harmless (unwanted) flirting?

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Pizzahut345 · 28/08/2023 18:39

I was doing some work in a summer school, tutoring in a language. On my first day, a male teacher there who I'd just met asked me my name and what subject I was teaching. I replied and then he said 'And how do you say you're beautiful in that language?'
I was embarrassed and didn't know what to say, he just laughed and then walked off, never saw him since.
I'm sure he didn't mean any harm, I should take it as a compliment, it was just a bit unwanted and especially in a professional environment.

OP posts:
Pizzahut345 · 28/08/2023 19:24

Agree he wouldn't ask a male/boss
Sadly I don't have the confidence to call them out, I should do!

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Redwinestillfine · 28/08/2023 19:26

The first just flirting. If he does it again and you don't like it tell him to stop. The second is a bit weird but again if you don't want people following you on SM make yourself invisible or say no to the following request. I wouldn't give it any more headspace

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