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Blocked and unlocked by ex fling/ friend on fb.

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somethingelsematters · 26/08/2023 09:22

He blocked me as he thought I had blocked him. I hadn't. My phone was off so his messages were on a single tic.
I had called time on a ridiculous situationship and he agreed. He has nothing to offer at the moment.
So he unblocked me when he realised his error but hasn't added me back.
Would it look pathetic for me to add him back or will I wait until he does it, if he will?

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10HailMarys · 26/08/2023 10:15

somethingelsematters · 26/08/2023 10:04

I think that having no trace of him in my
Life or on line may be the way to go. A clean break. I think I might just get rid him on all platforms and maybe be on without constant reminders of him.
He is a drama llama. It follows him everywhere he goes in every area of his life.

Oh for god’s sake. Just get rid of him. He is bringing literally nothing positive to your life.

BiIIie · 26/08/2023 10:41

You do both sound like children. And yes you would look really sad adding him back again. He deleted you, he hasn't added you back. When someone shows their true colours you really should listen.

drunkpeacock · 26/08/2023 10:46

CruCru · 26/08/2023 09:26

I think I’m too middle aged for this question. If someone gets into a huff and blocks you then they probably aren’t going to add much to your life. Move on.

Yes this 💯 if somebody, in any area of my life, deals with a problem by deleting, blocking then unblocking etc rather than discussing and dealing with it then I don't really want them to play a major part in my life.
He has nothing to offer you, just move on!

xsquared · 26/08/2023 11:19

Don't play these daft games, please.

somethingelsematters · 26/08/2023 11:29

I know you are all right but it's a horrible feeling to feel so used. I really dislike him and myself right now for allowing myself to be treated like that.

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GreyCarpet · 26/08/2023 11:35

somethingelsematters · 26/08/2023 11:29

I know you are all right but it's a horrible feeling to feel so used. I really dislike him and myself right now for allowing myself to be treated like that.

All the more reason to leave hom in the past and learn from it. Don't hand yourself over to him for more of the same.

somethingelsematters · 26/08/2023 11:36

Thanks@GreyCarpet

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Sn1859 · 26/08/2023 13:48

Trust me, just leave it and walk away. Block him because he’ll add you back when he’s got nothing else going.

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