My dp is from another country where the living standards can be poor with people on the poverty line extremely poor wages but cost of living is rising etc etc.
The circumstances of his relatives can be awful at times with not enough money to pay thier way or even enough to travel to work.
Now I don't think I'm a mean horrible person me and dp have our own place to run and cost of living has hit us hard I also have a uncertain future with been stuck in rental me and dp are only on minimum wages and I have health issues I'm.also supporting my ds a little through university I'm also trying to clear some debt.
The issue is his relatives are always asking for help financially abd if they are not directly asking they are sharing all of thier financial problems with dp making him feel awful and guilty if he can't help and some people there are chatting rubbish about him.
Please I'm.torn between our needs and thiers and feel like I could crack with it all.