Recently my husband's friend came over from Canada to get married in the UK. We arranged to meet them last week and drove up 2 hours to see them. My husband explained that this week he would be working a full 7 nights in a row, 10 hour shifts, and an hour each way to work. This he explained meant that we would probably miss the wedding so we gave them their wedding gifts than.
Today my husband came in from work, chilled out for a few hours and then went to bed as usual. Within an hour he was fully dressed and getting in the car. The Friend's mother and sister had landed in London and apparently no one had thought about how they would get to Birmingham... so he had called my husband.
Six and a half hours later, my husband runs through the door hands me a box of maple leaf cookies, told me "isn't it nice the guy gave him £100?" And then left for work, now half an hour late.
I am furious! My husband hasn't slept, hasn't eaten and has driven 8 hours in total and has another ten to work. Am I being unreasonable to say that I find this friend manipulate and selfish?