To be a bit scunnered with my friends

[EsmeWeatherwax]

Who to be fair, don't have any children, and indeed loathe kids, to arrange a night out for one of their 40th birthdays on Mothering Sunday, when its not even her birthday, but which will be my first Mothers day with dd? (I have asked them to change, but was apparently outvoted) We're not going out on the Saturday cos there's a new club opening they're all going to...

I think I probably am, but would like some opinions on whether or not I'm getting yself in a lather over nothing.

yanbu - your first mothers day is something special, even if lo doesn't understand it, its still special to you, and it doesn't sound like your friends have considered this at all. However, like the other posters say, it would be fun to spend time with lo in day then enjoy a girls night out in the eve. That would be a good first mothers day ! However I'd get a bit pissed off if they banged on about being anti-kids, knowing that you have one. A bit rude I think.