My 10 month old daughter hasn’t properly spent any time with her dad since New Year’s Day. I reached out in May to try and restart contact between them but things turned very aggressive as he wanted to spend whole days with her unsupervised from the get go and I don’t think that’s what’s best for her as he is essentially a stranger at this point. He left the meeting by saying he ‘doesn’t give a f* about me or her’ and threw her pram across the car park 😳 I’m not sure if he just said that out of anger because he was desperate to see her a few months beforehand.
he has 2 other sons who are missing out on a sister and vice versa. he smoked weed when we were together and occasionally took cocaine on the weekends, emotionally abusive towards me and I just can’t trust him. It’s all about control with him. As far as I’m aware he has blocked me on everything but my family can still contact him if they so wish (which they don’t)
am I out of my mind for wanting to try and take my emotions out of it and talk through things to try and help my daughter have a relationship with her paternal family? If he could be a good dad to her I would love them to have a relationship, he appears to be a good dad to his other kids so I feel like my daughter is missing out on so much. Please tell me if I am being delusional.