My relationship ended just over 2 years ago, I was very hurt by his actions. We had met initially doing a mutual hobby - trail running. He returned to the group, I was conflicted but decided to move on and started with a different group and am enjoying it, although obviously miss the old crowd but see some of them separately.
Now, some of them are encouraging me to return as they feel it's unfair I've had to leave and think enough time has passed. I have had no contact with ex, kept my dignity after he discarded me, and don't want to resume any sort of contact. Although I was upset initially, I've settled in with new group now. I suppose my question is:
IABU - Maybe return and see how I feel
IANBU - continue moving forward with new crowd