I have been really sure for a little while about leaving my husband. Lots of little things over the years have led to this point.
He doesn't help in the house, he makes me feel bad for spending time with my family, I don't have access to the joint account. He will ofen use the kids and have secret conversations with them which they then tell me about how they should make it fair on who they spend time with. Anyway lots of things I am not sure about.
The last week he has been like the perfect husband/farther. He says he doesn't understand where any of this is coming from and yes there have been some things that arent great but none of it in his eyes is marraige ending. I am totally doubting myself and wondering whether to go through with it. The kids will be upset and I'm so worried about it all. Is he playing a game though and making me doubt myself so I don't go through with it.
He expects I will leave the house too.