To find sex except with partners I REALLY find attractive disgusting?

[ForestGoblin]

I've probably only met one man in my life I enjoy sex with. Very lucky for me that he was up for it! If he left me or dies first I suspect I'll never have sex again because most guys give me the ick. Shuddering at the memory of well meaning guys optimistically suggesting it and making me want to scrub their kisses off my body with wire wool.

Do feel glad to have enjoyed it at least some in my life!

Nothing could be further from the truth.

Most men will gave sex with anyone willing.

I’m getting long in the tooth and have fancied so few men I have always wondered if I’m just too fussy. Fortunately been in a close to 30 year relationship.

@ThirtyThrillionThreeTrees agree, men will have sex with women they don’t like, hate, have zero attraction or good feelings towards.

Are you on the pill?! It can interfere with your attraction to men and also your sex drive etc, so interested whether you are or not

I'm not on the pill and when I ovulate I literally fancy everyone 😂

It's a good job you are a Cactus then.

Think that's how its supposed to work

I think it's pretty normal tbh, people who insist the female sex drive is the same as males are deluded. I don't see many female people doing the abhorrent things men do.

I am fully in peri and my sex drive has evaporated, this does not worry me.

YANBU. I detest this pornified and throwaway sex culture.

Well yeah ,if you don't find someone attractive of course you wouldn't want to.have sex with them I don't think this is groundbreaking news?

Generally, I find the thought of sex with anyone other than my partner a bit disgusting.

Yup this is what I meant by 'generally.' Last time I had a crush ,I was ovulating and it lasted for all of a few days.